I think this boy likes me and i dont like him and i dont know what to say because he is my friend, please help

Question

because i really love him as a friend and what if he asks me out what do i say not to hurt him because he has been my friend for 9 years.

Answer 1

Tell him that you value your friendship with him but you don't have romantic feelings for him. He'll be hurt, it happens.

Answer 2

You say he's your friend and has been for nine years, but you don't like him? What you really might mean is that you don't have any romantic interest in him. Well, I don't see what's wrong with going on a date with him. It doesn't mean you're committed for a lifetime. Go out and have fun, and just keep things friendly. If he makes moves on you, just explain that you're not ready for that sort of thing, and that you just want to be his friend. He may be a little disappointed, but if he's really a friend, he will understand. You can always say, "I don't want to ruin a beautiful friendship," and let him know how much you do value him as a friend, but you aren't ready for a love relationship with him or anyone else at this time. Hopefully, you'll both eventually find people that you do want a romance with, and hey, you can go to each other's weddings! Good luck!

Answer 3

Here this story. It start here i loved this beautiful girl i have been her best friend for 3 years.She has a bf but the problem is she never came up to me and said im not your gf.If she did it wont matter because im a cool guy there is a lot of girls that like me.So what happen then shes say that she broke up with her bf.So she loves but she loves someone else.She hasnt decide yet if she loves.Because i havent given her present.But now im going to make her happy.So i just gotta wait.If she says yes im dating her.

So your friend might not care just wait because is your bf that good or your best friend who u been with the most.Its a hard chose u need a boy that will take of u forever.Like feed u take care of your childrens and be with u all the time.So Good Luck.

Answer 4

ok, this is a very difficult situation. but here's the main point. i know that u don't want to hurt him at all but you have to make sure that you don't hurt him but are very straight forward about it. Tell him that although you don't see him as a boyfriend that you do treasure your friendship with him and that you hope he'll be alright with that. he may pull away for awhile and feel angry but eventually if he's truly your friend he will come back around. just make sure not to drag it on...and be like well let's see what happens etc. not to hurt his feelings. be nice but straightfoward bc if you don't ur going to be not knowingly playing with his feelings which will eventually make him angry with you. Hope this helps! Good luck

Answer 5

Tell him you really appreciate his friendship and don't want to do anything to jeopardise that!
A lot of people lose a close friendship by trying to make it more, because it is a lot harder to go back to just being friends after! (A lot work out aswel, but you don't have to point that out to him, although he might point that out to you!).
If that doesn't work, tell him you think of him more like a brother! This should give him the message that you aren't attracted to him that way, without being blunt about it!
Good luck!

Answer 6

If you like his boy as only a friend, then that is fine. It's ok to have guys as just friends. If he asks you out, don't lie to him, just tell him that you just wont to be his friend and only his firend. If time goes by and you wont to be more then friends, then this the time to tell him. All you have tell him is what you are really feeling and if he's the friend and the person that you know, then he should understand you and still wont to be your friend.

Answer 7

You should give him a chance and see how the relationship goes, who knows you may end up liking him alot and he might be a good boyfriend..even best friends fall in love so its normal. My parents were best friends before they were married :]

Answer 8

Just tell him that you are so glad to have him as a mate and you hope you can be friends for ever and that you wouldnt want anything to spoil that.

Im sure that will prompt him to rethink hes approach if he was going to ask you out

Answer 9

just say sorry i like you as a friend but im not in love with you. but you still have a chance with any other girl. there are probably better girls than me out there.
or you can try dating him and see if you have a good time. it might be fun and end up lovin him.

Answer 10

Tell him you know how he feels for you. Then tell him that you do not feel the same way. Come up with some lame excuse like "Dating would ruin our friendship".