Why is it so hard to be the heart-breaker in a relationship?

Question

Do u have to be heartbroken before you be the heartbreaker. I'm asking because it seems like I'm in a circle. My first love broke up with me because I wasn't what he was looking for at the time and he wanted to see what other type's of girls were out there. My current boyfriend has deep feelings for me like I had with my ex. I don't wanna get that serious right now. My boyfriend is a very jealous person. He doesn't like when I talk to other males (friend wise). I'm starting to think I need to see what else is out there for me because I dont' know what I want in a relationship. This is my first serious relationship.I figure if I see what other relationship have to offer me I'll figure out what I want and how to make them work.But my scared that if I see what other relationships have to offer, I going to miss the one im in currently.I might figure out that I was searching for something that I already have, and it won't be right for me to go back because he might find someone else

This is a high school student. Thanks for all the help. Be serious you all know how confusing and hard a teenage relationship is.

Answer 1

Actually when you get older, you'll see that ALL relationships are confusing to ALL ages, thats why people brow-beat teenagers because they don't accept that, they what people to think they know what the f their doing, and us older people laff because NO ONE knows what there doing. That aside your problem isn't with relationships, its with your inability to understand what your going to use your relationship FOR. Which is a constant problem all people deal with, AND think that multiple OTHER relationships will fix, congrulations your a normal confused individual within our socity. Your fix is ether go down the road everyone else is doing, which your doing a good job, just keep being confused and don't worry about having a purpose in life. Are you find your own path, find your own purpose, and find someone to love you for that, its up to you thou, your life, your choice.....