I just met this guy and pretty much right away we were both crazy about each other. Problem is, I have really bad anxiety. It's worse when I like someone! I worry about saying the wrong thing, being likable, "messing things up." This wouldn't be such a big deal but it's hard for me to play it cool. I want to be an easygoing girlfriend and not make him feel stressed out or like he has to check in with me. However, it's hard to be easygoing when I feel like a nervous wreck.
I feel that things could go really well with us if only I can learn to trust in him and just "let it happen. But it's so hard for me to do this! How can I manage these feelings so that the anxiety doesn't make me act to intense/nervous/controlling? I really don't want to scare him off.
2007-10-28 09:01:39 · 1 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ur going to need to tell him about this so that he can understand you, but never use it as an excuse. i think, but if you don't want to tell him you may need some help. anixety is really hard to control by yourself. you need support
2007-10-28 09:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋