I have 5 people in my wedding. Trying to plan a bacherlotte party that everyone will like. We were thinking the winieries everyone said ok except her because she does not like wine. What do I do? I don't want to have a sucky bacherlotte in some trashy bar we always go to. And with all her friends.
2007-10-28 08:56:38 · 11 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The maid won't go to the winieries because she does not like wine.
2007-10-28 09:10:26 · update #1
How do I tell her i do not like her idea. She wants to go to trashy bars so she can see all her friends.
2007-10-28 09:29:47 · update #2
It's your wedding, it's your party. This is not about her. If she doesn't want to come along and have fun, then she can stay home and be a party pooper. If you guys hire a limo so you are not drinking & driving, the limos usually have mixed drinks or you can take your own drinks in the limo. She can drink beer or mixed drinks in between eacy winery visit. She will probably have a great time!
Tell her you want to do something special, out of the norm, and the bar scene can be done anytime. Give her a little guilt trip by emphasizing this is the only Bachellorette party you will ever have and it would be so special if a wine tour with limo was set up. Seriously, she can get loaded in the limo! Also, normally, you have to visit wineries during daylight hours. Tell her after the wine tour, you guys can hit a few bars if everyone is able to still walk. This is a perfect compromise. The bar scene would be dead during the day when the wineries are open.
2007-10-28 09:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Susan N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....your bachelorette is thrown FOR you....not by you.
But if 5 out of 6 want to go to a winery just tell that maid majority rules and she doesn't have to come.
If you think the bars are trashy why do you go on any other day?
2007-10-28 16:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It's your party and I'm sure there are a lot more other beverages at the winery. But, if it still becomes a problem, have a back up. My co-worker planned a spa theme since none of them like clubbing or drinking. Suggest that, they and mostly you would enjoy that and you'll be pampered.
2007-10-28 16:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your wedding! If she does not like your ideas maybe you need to find a new maid of honor!
2007-10-28 16:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Presto's Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who is the primary person supposed to be planning the bachelorette party? If your maid of honor isn't doing it, maybe you can encourage one of the other bridesmaids to step up?
2007-10-28 16:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by nova_queen_28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, pretty much say that this is your wedding not hers. She sounds like a pretty inconsiderate maid of honor, no offense.
2007-10-28 16:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her sorry- this is what everyone else wants to do. this is my wedding- so if you want to join us we would love to have you- if not im sorry but this is what i want to do. she is being totally selfish. do what you want no matter what!!! for her bachelorette party she can go to trashy bars.
2007-10-29 04:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Katie O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your wedding so it's all about you.
wine bars serve all kinds of drinks so she will be all right.
What you need to understand is that she is manipulation you so that she could see all her friends - and as this is your wedding you will probably regret having something going wrong - so she ia going where you want to go!!!
2007-10-28 18:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Yara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to flip the f***k out on her!!
Your wedding!
Your party!
Not hers!
Straten her out or ask someone nicer to step up and take her place! Put your foot down. Do what makes you happy!
Above all , have fun =)
2007-10-28 16:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Behaven 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's your party, a party for you. Majority wins and she has to suck it up.. After all it's all about YOU, not her.
2007-10-29 01:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋