I told my best friend that I loved her. She rejected me, gently, but the result is the same. Over time, I realized that we were soul mates, and even on the physical level, she told me many times that she thought I was so handsome (OK, I don't mean to sound vain...that's what she said...). But after her rejection, I came to the conclusion that despite our past relationship, I cannot have contacts with her any longer, especially that I don't ever want to hear about her relationship problems with other guys. Should I just exit out of her life without saying anything else? If I do that, she will be left out on her own with no more real intimate friend and confidante...But honestly, I don't care if she is hurt, because I am hurt too and I just want her to suffer. I know it's not good to think that way, but hey, I am human too! Please serious advice only...unless its really funny and it cheers me up!
2007-10-28 08:13:19 · 4 answers · asked by Dr. Phil 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats kinda mean, I dont know why she would just reject you like that. No offense but that to me is just kinda rude. Well anyway, i think that was a very nice thing that you admitted that to her. I dont think that you should just exit out of her life because shes sounds like an important person to you in your life. I think that you should continue to spend time with her because it sounds like you might have a chance to win her heart. For right now maybe just give her her own space until her rejective feelings go away (roughly a week) and she will realize that she misses you and you can put the rejection behind you both. :)
2007-10-28 08:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Best Friend Rejected Me
2017-01-14 16:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger is a natural reaction to what you are going through, but if she really is as important to you as you said, completely removing yourself from her would be concidered bad form. Sadly, we cannot choose who we fall in love with and it is always more difficult when a friend is involved, I suppose you just have to realize that she isnt the one for you. I dont know if you are familiar with the term "twin flame". A twin flame is someone who resembles what your soulmate is only there is one thing that doesnt complete as a soulmate would or for some reason you two will never be together. I think that is what you are facing now. Accept the friendship and continue the search for mrs. right
2007-10-28 08:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Angel 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well i am actual in the same position as you friend here...i mean yes she does like you, but not that well. She may have liked you in the past but you never noticed so she gave up. You probably just waited to long. I know how you feel and i am sorry...but just explain to her that you realize she said no and that you will try to except that and move on.
hope everything works out.....<3
2007-10-28 08:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Say "You've been a great friend, but it's just too hard for me to be around you right now." She'll understand.
2007-10-28 08:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by monicanena 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋