it was my first time and like i gave him a ******** and like we had sex for a while but he didnt bust. but now he is texting me.
last night he texted me after i left saying make sure you dont tell anyone i dont want anyone to know.
and the sam this morning.
how should i take this?!
2007-10-28 07:44:56 · 19 answers · asked by Secrett! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay so a few other details to help out.
i will not discolose my age because i dont want the rude comments but we are both the same age.
and i wouldnt tell anyone becaus ei dont want crap going around about me but the fact that he keeps saying that. and also i think he might have a thing with one of my friends.
i was under the influence.
and to the guy who said make him work for it.
that wasnt it i just i really dont know because what i have told you is all i can remeber.
2007-10-28 08:22:02 · update #1
he must feel like you aren't worth ruining his reputation. He must have been miserable making it with you. Ouch!!
2007-11-05 05:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't mention your ages, but I am going to assume that you are young. This made me think of a few possibilities.
1.) He has a girlfriend that you might not know about, and doesn't want her to find out.
2.) He is older and you are younger and he is afraid that if you tell someone then he will get in trouble for sleeping with a minor.
3.) He is afraid of one of yall's parents finding out (this especially applies if yall are younger).
4.) Maybe he is embarrassed of you (I certainly hope that isn't the reason but I had to throw it in here).
Since he is texting you that could mean that he is really into you. If it was his first time, or first time with you, he could have possibly been so worried about it that he couldn't concentrate enough to ***. I hope yall get it worked out. Regardless of what happens with him just remember that you are a great girl and you don't need some guy to show you that!! Good Luck! :-)
2007-10-28 14:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me liek you shoudl be pissed. I say this because if I was in his shoes why woudl I ever ask that of you? Because:
1. I want to mack it to someone else.
2. I may already being macking it to someone else.
3. I am embarrassed by you.
4. My friend, brother, etc. is into you and I know he's going to hit on you..
5. My community is realigous and it wouldn't go over well.
6. I wanted to remaina virgin .....not likely but anyway..
7. I have deniability if I needed it int he future.
You can probably answer this yourself. Are you skinny, fat? Hot, ugly? Younger,older? More popular, less popular? A different race?
But if you liek him, and he's not an ass, what's the big deal?
Oh and as mentioend above, if your'e a minor and he's nto or clsoe to 18, then that may be why. S*x is good but not good enough to go to jail for....
it does sound liek he's using you though..
2007-10-28 14:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Hikerjoe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Now. This guy is a jerk and needs to be confronted about this secret stuff. I'm sure it's not the first time that he has told you this about other issues.
You need to be upfront with him and if he refuses to give you an answer, you need to consider dropping him from your life.
A guy who does this after having sex is hiding something, and you need to know what it is.
Oh. And get tested. For STDs. It might be that. It may also be embarrassment, and in that case you need to talk to him about what he's ashamed of.
2007-10-28 14:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not want anyone to know proablly because your too young to be ding it anyway. Any you gave him a blow j*b, what did he do for you? Since your going to be having sex let me tell you, you are starting out on the wrong foot. Its not all about the guys, its about you too.
2007-10-28 14:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't indicate whether you are a "minor" or not. If your a
minor, by law, even if you say "yes." It is a "no" in the courts.
And just because, he didn't bust, as you say. It only takes one
little sperm. and the DNA will tell the rest. <}:-})
2007-10-28 14:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like one or both of you are too young to be having sex, or he's got a girlfriend or something and doesn't want his antics to be made public.
2007-10-28 14:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously got something to hide. If it were my guess, I would say he has another girl on the side. Be on the lookout for that kind of thing. We all have ulterior motives. What's his?
2007-10-28 14:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ken S 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why either of u should talk about that.If he is repeating the same,understand he is making a story of u. Beware of him.
2007-10-28 14:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is a private person. Sex is not really something you go around just telling everyone about.
2007-10-28 14:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by Beverly C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋