why or why not? and u can add details if u want
2007-10-28 07:23:45 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
18 and I regretted it. I regretted it because it wasn't what it was all cracked up to be. Also, I was mistaken in thinking that it would deepen our relationship; it didn't. Honestly? I might have waited until I was in my middle twenties. For women, you don't understand, appreciate or know your own sexuality fully until you're in your thirties and forties. It's a rockin time! You've learned to separate sex from love, and appreciate the hell out of it when the two collide.
Educate yourself on how your body works; don't rely on rumors and locker room talk. There are too many good resources available. Learn about your body and what pleases you by masturbating. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. It's OK NOT to want to have sex, or even go on a hiatus. Once you decide you're ready, make sure you treat your body like it's a wonderful, fragile thing that requires a lot of maintenance and protection (safe sex, regular check ups, consistent use of birth control). If religion plays a part in your decision, that's fine-- but remember that you must understand how your body reproduces as a matter of health education. Regardless of how you believer, or don't believe, the physiological functions of your body are fact.
Yeah, a lot of info, but I wanted to cover as many bases as I could. Good luck with whatever you decide!
2007-10-28 07:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 21. It was with my then boyf. now hubby who was 24 at the time. he was a virgin too. No I don't regret it. I am so glad that I waited until I was with the man i wanted to marry. It means that we have something very special that we've never shared with anyone else. We got to learn everything together, and we are still learning. One thing we've learned is that sex is not just about a physical need, it's also an emotional need. Sometimes, the urge to make love comes from the need to re affirm our relationship and to be emotionally closer to each other, rather than just to release the tension etc.
It's an intimate and beautiful thing, and it should be saved for the special someone.
2007-10-28 11:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by A derka der 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
17, yes, i do regret starting quite early... to my mind.
it's just that as i look back now and compare it to making love sessions i have with my husband now, I am 23, I think those times were pretty glum. I didn't appreciate what sex is really for and how much more pleasurable it is when y ou have it with a spouse and all feelings which come with him/her.
2007-10-28 07:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Yara S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
18--nope i did not regret it. I was in control of the situation and that is how i wanted it to be. I was with my best friend who wasn't going to do anything i wasn't ready for. I just wanted to see what all the hoopla was about this thing called sex. We did it and we continued to have a great day. I wasn't in love or anything. I just wanted to be in a situation where i wasn't forced or anything like that. And my friend provided that for me.
2007-10-28 07:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by moralagent004 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
19. And no, i did not regret it. If I had been 15-16 or younger, I probably would have. It is worth waiting for!
2007-10-28 07:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
17! and yeah i regret losin it because i thought i was goin out with a nice gal but turned out at the end of are relationship she cheated on me so yeh i regret having sex with a slut
2007-10-29 00:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 and although I don't regret having lost my virginity back then, the experience itself was nothing to write home about. Kids that age are pretty sexually inept.
2007-10-28 07:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i was 15, and yeah i did regret it. It was with some jock that i thought was real cute and everbody else was doing so i thought i would to It sucked. You learn as you grow older what to do and how to make it really enjoyable. When you have sex with little boys you get little enjoyment
2007-10-28 07:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by ldr5455 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I was molested by my stepfather from the earliest memory until I climbed out my bedroom window at the age of 13. Then I hooked up with a biker who I thought I was in love with... it turned out that he was giving me pills in my drinks and selling the use of my body to guys while I was pssed out... the gf of one of the bikers told me and her old man beat the senses out of her for it.
Well, I never regret anything but those guys should !!!!
2007-10-28 07:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
17, and 5 months ago. But we've been engaged for a while and she's awesome (yeah 50% of marriages fail, but look at glass half full)
2007-10-28 07:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jacob A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋