I'm an Irainian girl.my dad is a musician(he plays giutar),he doesn't get much money because Here they dont like musice and dont pay atention to it.But the problem is not his job it is that my father has given our house to bank bo get a loan for his friend (about 200000000$)but now his friend has got the money in fact he has stolen it from the bank. and now nobody knows where he is(some say in belgium /canada)now bank wants to get the house from my dad and if it happens my parents will divorce and i realy dont want this happen you may not know what will happen to my future,,,,,,,please
2007-10-28 02:42:46 · 9 answers · asked by Feryal 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I will give you the best advice any human being will, you need to Go to God, God already knows what is going on, but if you don't Have Jesus in your life you need to ask, After you have the Lord in your life, you need to sit down and pray about this, it sounds like you are doing alot of needless worrying and did your parents say they are going to get a divorice, they might fight over it, out of anger, but if they truly love each other, I do not see divorice, a house is not everything, if the deal is done your father was duped, and you all have to move on with what you have and do alot of praying to the Lord, but again I say to you Prayer is going to help you, worry will not help you at all, it will just make you worry more, you need to sit down and talk to your parents for a little peace of mind also. God Bless you and I pray everything works out for your family, I am sure you are wonderful people that just need God in your lives.
2007-10-28 03:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lynn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for you. Your Dad made a serious mistake and the bank will win.
I suggest if you can, ask your friends for help and maybe food and a place to live.
I wish you well. You may want to sell your computer.
No one can predict the future, but often we can see the problems of others more clearly than they can.
We here in American can also see the scams of others intending to get money under false pretensions. It's very common.
2007-10-28 02:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Initial contact 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends and money don't mix honey! Your father should have known this. Now your family will suffer for his lack of wisdom. However, you do not have to pay his debt. You can still have a future of your own. You may have to leave your family and move far away from your country of origin to find a future that you want. But it can be done.
2007-10-28 02:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry this has happened to your dad. It was a bad decision with good intentions. Unfortunately, this is his to sort out. And he needs to get a police report to take to the bank and see if they are willing to work with him. Also, if his wife leaves him over this mistake, there are much bigger issues with them at play.
2007-10-28 02:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear this, but honey there is nothing YOU can do....... you didnt borrow the money, and it will up to your Dad to repay it or your house will go to the bank...... I think you should be prepared to move............. so sorry, but some people have to learn the hard way, and I think your dad learned a lesson the very hard way
2007-10-28 02:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Annoy and Ehi C seem to be thinking along the same lines as I.
Reminds me of a spam mail I received yesterday.
2007-10-28 04:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Renata 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was that 200 million $?
2007-10-28 02:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but there isn't really anything anyone here can do. It looks like your father trusted the wrong person. :(
2007-10-28 02:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a terrible situation to be in.
Did you say you are in Nigeria ?
2007-10-28 02:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by an-noy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋