There is a girl who keeps coming back to me and hurting me because she doesn't know what she wants. I am on fire for God but the devil keeps reminding me of how much I love her. God may let us be together when she realizes what she wants, or she may not be right, though at a time I was sure she was. We go to the same church, finding a new church isn't really an option. How can I keep my spirituality, focus on God in church, and not be depressed?
2007-10-28 02:07:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
pray , for God to give u the strength read the word and try talking to ur spiritual father or someone u trust that u know can help u and ask them to pray for u. bye goodluck
2007-10-28 02:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Noelsco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your spirituality through prayer which keeps you closer to God. Pray for HIM to give you strength and direction in this matter.
You are right, the devil wants you to sin so he can laugh at GOD. Do you want that?
If you do the right thing and be steadfast and sincere in your prayers plus be patient and quiet to hear His voice, the Holy Spirit within you will gently guide you in the right way.
Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love HIM.
31; If God is for us who can be against us?
2007-10-28 09:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, Have you talk to this girl about how you are feeling? I agree with most of the ones above..you need to pray..really pray..and open yourself up to where you can hear God's answer. He may not give it to you right away..remember in His Time..not ours...but just keep a look out..He may be already giving you an answer now..listen to your heart..That's wear the answer will be..but what you need to do..is rebuke the devil and ask God to keep him away..you need to have a clear head..so tell the devil he isn't welcome there and to leave you alone..and he will for awhile..just trust your heart!! Give it to God and leave it alone..He will take care of it..I will pray for you..God Bless You..
2007-10-28 09:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Betsy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to meditate/prayer, do mind-body exercises, eat a good diet, gather the best in spiritual ideas, and stop focusing on that which is not doing you any good. God will help you, if you work hard, and focus on doing good in this world.
2007-10-28 09:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by astrogoodwin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be interested to know that in Plato's _Phaedrus_, the burning sensation one feels when one feels attraction/love towards another human being is the soul being reminded of Divine Beauty. Lovers of wisdom, it says, can realize this and use the feelings to bring them closer to the Divine.
2007-10-28 09:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by kriosalysia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pray to God first. And I think you should confront her, express to her how you feel, about how she is hurting you. Tell her that she needs to decide what she is going to do, since its hurting you mentally. Always put God first.
2007-10-28 09:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask Gods guidance.Let Him direct your paths, your thoughts..God knows the desire of your hearts..Just be patient and He will give it...Just let God control everything in your life...
2007-10-28 09:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by lei22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋