what makes a man lose his sex drive?

Question

I have been with this man for 15 years and sex has never been a problem until now. From having sex 3 or 4 times a week, somedays twice to no sex at all I cannot understand it. I thought maybe it was my weight, but I actually weigh smaller now. He never initates sex and I always have too. Now I do foreplay and he does not get an erection. We talk about it and he says because we have had to much sex in the past. I try different things, lingerie, kinky games,and that does not seem to work. I am sexually frustrated and donot want to cheat on him. Alot of things go through my head- he watches porno does that has something to with it. Is he cheating or gay? he smokes weed and drinks alcohol everyday does that has play a role? What else can I do, I am tired of rubbing him every night abd he just turns the other way. He has gained muscles in chest and arm and looks good.Sex plays agreat role in a relationship,especially since he was my first.He got me hooked on it and I am not satisfied

Answer 1

I would have him get a physical. It could be his blood sugar or a few other things. Guys do not like to deal with this. They are embarrassed and do not want to deal with you or to talk to a doctor about it.I would not think that he was cheating because of this. Guys still get an erection if they are cheating. No matter how much sex you have had in the past that is not the problem. Good luck.

Answer 2

it's so simple
go to the doctor , he may be sick
don't belive he is cheating on u, he may be cheating, he may be not - so don't ruin ur life without 100% proof.

meanwhile u can use anything to masturbate untill he recover, but don't cheat on him.

Answer 3

he might be cheating on you spy on him

Answer 4

he is cheating on you.