i really don't understand this,,?

Question

when i don't do any bad things,,like smoking, drinking, doing bad stuffs with girls,,, i m sad and depressed in my life,,
when my frnds or ppl whom i know,,they do those bad things,,they r happy in their life?!?
i mean wtf,,
is this what u call justice??

does it mean bad ppl r more happy than sincere and good ppl?

Answer 1

You need people. I think maybe when you are smoking drinking and you end up with a handful of girl it is because you are socializing where people drink. Try socializing someplace with no alcohol or smoking and try making the girl a friend first, see how that goes.

Answer 2

No one ever said that becoming an adult was easy emotionally. It takes little effort to undo the good in life, but it takes a lot of effort to create the good and maintain it. Drugs, smoking, alcohol, and meaningless sex take little effort and undo what is good in life. Most things worth while take effort, otherwise everyone would take the other road. True justice has never existed, amigo! The fact is that destiny lives within every living human being. We try to change what is inevitable, and when we as humans cannot, we cry in angst to a being we call "God". Although men are in charge of life, they will always be left at a disadvantage because they are cursed with male hormones and genetic shortcomings that leave them to do what feels right rather than what is right. Their morals ultimately consist of a silhouette of a beautiful figure, a ham sandwich, and a bottle of wine. And then, in a hundred years everything wears out, and the bodies are carried off to the human junk yard covered with big rocks and plastic flowers.

Answer 3

You haven't seen the last of them. If you have learned physics which is the study of the universe, there is a law created by Isaac Newton called Newton's Third Law. This law states that when there is an action force, there will be a reaction force opposite in direction and equal in magnitude. When you punch the wall the wall will exert an equal amount of force on your hand and that's why you feel pain. Life is the same. When you do bad things, it will eventually come back. Only when the time comes, then you will face the consequences. Bad people experience good only temporarily and will eventually face the consequences of their bad deeds when their time comes. If you want to live a good life you must do good and be a good person. We cannot deny the laws of nature.

Answer 4

The first question I would ask you is how do you know they are actually happy? Sometimes people appear outwardly to be happy when they really aren't.

Second, smoking, drinking and having sex are not in themselves bad things. Abusing them are.

Third, your happiness should never be compared with the happiness of others. Fill your life full of the things that interest you and spend less time comparing your life to others and you'll find your own definition of happiness.

Many people don't drink or smoke and still have fulfilling lives. And many who do drink abuse it to the point of self-destructing. Many who smoke pay the price of cancer.

What happened in your past and even what is happening at this very moment aren't nearly as important as what the rest of your life will be. Again I'll say this: find your own path, fill your life with what interests you, quit comparing your life to others and you'll find happiness.

Answer 5

Justice, good deeds, and the overall rank of being just the opposite of the devil does not guarentee hapiness

Those things are just reflections to people of what kind of person you are

They have nothing to do with whether you are happy or not

However, becoming bad does not give you hapiness either, probably worse. So as long as you don't give in to the even more depressing things, hapiness will find you

Try love

Answer 6

I think what you are asking is very fair, and is something we have all asked, at one time in our lives.
it seems the better you are the worse ya have it, and vice versa.
But, trust me on this one, the older you get, the more it is you realize what truly makes you happy. you will find whatever or whoever that is.
the ones you see around you, will be left with emptiness, regret, low self esteem and anger at the fact that they never found out what life id really about. And you know it isn't what they have now.
What you are doin is brave. You chose to feel, and not mask it or run away from it with drugs and alcohol
Never doubt your self worth and happiness, because if you stay on the road you are on now, you will be the one others wonder why is so damn happy!

Answer 7

Justice is not the question, since justice is meted by others, not by life. Life is unfair if you let it be unfair. The problem you are having is that your epistemology is not doing its job of proving your presumptions about life. In each case of what you call "injustice," one of your propositions is false, either the major, the minor, or the conclusion, or a combination of them all. Sounds like you have a lot to sort out. Good luck.

Answer 8

You should be happy because you are doing good with your life. Spending your life the right way is a source of happiness, and you shouldn't compare it to other people.
;)

Answer 9

You don't need to do drugs and be promiscuous with women to feel happiness in life. Some people have different ideas than others. They choose to waste their lives being selfish and not caring about the people they hurt around them. Find yourself people like yourself and don't give in to the temptations of drugs and promiscuity.

Answer 10

you can be happy naturally, you do not need drug, or do any drinking, as far as sex goes, use condoms and protect yourself.
you are 20 year old, by one stupid mistake you can ruin your whole future.your goals everything that you wish to accomplish for yourself.

the point is to keep balance in your life, do not over due anything, and whom ever told you that by doing all those things that they are happy they are lying to you.

do not rush in to anything before anything first think and tell yourself is this worth it or not.