Ok so I like this boy and I told my friend. She said the best way for me to get him is to "flaunt" myself. How do I do that? She said I have the body for it. [As in i'm not fat, im skinny but have what guys like] Is it a certain way I should dress or what?
Please help and thanks in advance.
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Please No rude comments.
2007-10-27 16:04:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Ok, for one, what she ment by flaunt, is pretty much to be a slut. Dress sexy, act real flirty, ect. Now secondly, if you have to flaunt, then there is a problem. Want my advice (from a guy)? Talk to him. He will respect you more for it. Otherwise he will look at you as a slut, and thusly treat you like one.
2007-10-27 16:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by R H 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the boy, sweetie. If you're trying to be like the girls in the movies, you have to shift your hips as you walk to flaunt your rear end, when you stop walking, stand up straight, and arch your back a little bit, and make a subtle pout. Wear a bit of lipstick or lip gloss, as this makes the guy's subconcious mind fantasize what is happening elsewhere. Look into his eyes. Imagine like you can see into him and his loving soul. You'll get "bedroom eyes" when you see something you like and this is another signal that taps into his subconcious. Touch him somewhere. Like if you're talking, gently brush his arm or elbow. Avoid the shoulder and back, it's a "let's just be friends" signal. The arm and elbow is just a generally friendly signal and he'll automatically take a liking to you. Find out what he likes. Don't try to like exactly what he likes or be fake, but know a little about what he likes. Say he likes baseball. Find out his favourite team and ask him about how they're doing this season. If you definitely do not like baseball, don't ask him to go to a baseball game. You won't be happy and he might notice. If he doesn't, again, his subconcious will. Mimic his actions very subtley. Say he crosses his legs. You do it too. The best time for you to do it is between ten and fifty seconds. Whatever you do, do NOT do it before ten seconds. He could notice and think you're a creep for copying him. I've gotten many people to like me this way. The best of luck to you! Hope I helped!
2007-10-27 16:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're dealing with boys, it's not as complicated as it sounds. Men are genetically programmed to pay attention to things that move, like how cats and tigers get real interested in anything that moves that could be prey. If you want "this boy" to pay you attention, just move. That's it. Try to act perfectly natural and that you've got a good reason why you're moving, but it's your motion that will get his attention. But once he gets the idea that you're desperately trying to grab his attention, he could think maybe you're a loser. So, don't overdo it or make it obvious. Remember, simple motion is the key, and do it in his field of view.
2007-10-27 16:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Scythian1950 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if you got it flaunt it,you don't really have to do anything with your body but where clothes that enhance your assets example if you have a nice butt where tight jeans nice legs where a mini skirt you get the point get noticed Hun
2007-10-27 16:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥tinkerbell♥princess♥nena♥ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Please don't try to "flaunt" yourself. You'll probably end up embarrassing yourself. It will just seem forced and awkward. Just keep doing what have always done. Be yourself. If a guy doesn't see your positives without you "flaunting" yourself at him, he doesn't deserve you anyway.
2007-10-27 16:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by musicgirl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good posture and a nice smile. Only reveal one sexy body part at a time or else you'll just come across skanky.
2007-10-27 16:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by kaliedoscope_eyes86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try wearing a new outfit or something that makes you look really good and shows yourself off, but don't forget to be yourself.
2007-10-27 16:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Holly H <3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just dress nicely and make sure your hair looks great. You don't want to do anything too dramatic. You don't want it to seem too obvious. Just be yourself. Good luck!
2007-10-27 16:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by bizzi 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just find out what he likes and try to do what he likes and still be genuine. or if you want to go another way try to wear skanky clothes. whatever you perfer really.
2007-10-27 16:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by bugaboo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that is what drunk women do in bars. she did not give you good advice.
2007-10-27 16:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋