I was supposed to go to a Halloween party today with a few friends. I called my friend an hour before the party to see when she was picking me up; She didn't answer the phone and I couldn't leave a message because my dad was waiting for my mom to call. So, I called again a half hour later and still she didn't answer. Then I called at seven, thirty minutes before the party started. But she didn't answer, again. She enver came by to pick me up either. I would have asked my dad to drop me off but he had left to pick my mom up from the airport. She could have forgotten but we had talked about it a few times yesterday and she's never forgotten before. I feel like maybe she didn't want me to go, but I was invited and she even said, before I could ask, that she would give me a ride.
I don't know whether to be mad or just forget that it happened? Am I over reacting about this whole thing?
2007-10-27 15:49:01 · 9 answers · asked by Ellie L. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no you are not over reacting. either she stood you up on purpose or maybe she got caught up in something that was out of her control. like her family, or her friends not wanting to pick anybody else up.
it could be Innocent but you never know.
I would be mad!
2007-10-27 15:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by neverlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing for you to do is the next time you talk to her just randomly bring it up. She might have forgotten about you. But if you have been talking about this for a while now it doesn't sound that way to me. Don't come right out and say "why didn't you come and get me." Talk about something and then say something like SO did u forget about something or what? If she dances around the question then you know she was lying. I hope everything works out..been there done that!!!
2007-10-27 15:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by crayz_grl16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have upset me too. Give her the benefit of the doubt though. Maybe she was in an accident or something. When you see her, ask what happened and then decide how you feel. If she just changed her mind, tell her nicely that you would appreciate a phone call next time. In the future, don't rely on her if it is something important.
2007-10-27 15:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by iceemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're not doing anything, you're not overreacting.
If you were trashing the house, you would be overreacting.
Next time, call your friend, and if there is no answer, call another until you can reach someone to give you a ride.
On Monday, talk to her to see why she dropped you. Hopefully it won't be anything more serious than a grounding.
2007-10-27 16:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have the right to be mad but than again i think that you should talk to her about it tomorrow. If she is a true friend she will tell you the truth.
2007-10-27 15:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really.. she sounds like she is giving you the run around.. ditching u in a real passive-aggressive way. unless she had a real good reason not to turn up or answer your calls..i would watch out for her..she sounds like a back stabber
2007-10-27 15:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you're not overreacting. Just chill and go in your room and relax. Wait until she calls you explaining what happened.
2007-10-27 16:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your overreacting, you do have a right to be mad, she should've called you or something, but still, you should talk to her about it when you can, but dont blow up at her, just ask he what happened and try to understand, dont stress it to much.
2007-10-27 15:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what happened, did something come up or what.why the change of heart. did,nt want me to go or what
2007-10-27 16:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋