My friend got kind of mad at me (I don't see why he's mad though; he's really overreacting about nothing) and he told me that he wasn't even going to read my e-mails, he was just going to delete them. At first I thought he was joking because he got mad over nothing that was worth being mad about, but he really isn't replying to my e-mails. I don't have any other ways to talk to him, and I like him a lot, and I really want to talk to him again. I can't say sorry for something that I don't feel sorry for, and even if I did, he would just delete the e-mail before reading it. I don't know what to do. Help, please!!!
2007-10-27 15:47:37 · 6 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, since you aren't telling us what you did...you probably did do something and don't want to admit it.
Now, assuming you genuinely don't know why he's upset at you...wait for him to e-mail. Go on with your life, go out with your friends that are in the same area you are.
If you don't hear from him in two weeks or so, find another way to reach him and ask him to tell you *exactly* why he is so upset at you, so that you won't do it again.
And remember, just because YOU think it was over nothing, does not mean that it was a nothing to him. Imagine howe you'd feel if a good friend told you that you honestly looked hideous in a new dress that you absolutely adored. You'd be seriously P-O'd at her, and likely not talk to her for a while.
If he's a friend worth having, he'll cool down and either contact you, or stop deleting your e-mails unread. (However, like I said, let him make the move...sending him a bunch of e-mails could become a more serious matter than you need. (He could simply block your e-mail addy.)
2007-10-27 16:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should gie it a few days, and maybe rethink your position that he doesnt have any real reson to be upset. After a couple days maybe you could try a message via the subject line (which he'd see even if he doesnt read anything else).
2007-10-27 22:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by whit1ove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must be mad for some reason...find out whats it...(there's sure a source...a beggining for it)
After you find out whats he been through...try to help him...
If he reject or refuse to take your offer...just ignore him...If he's your bestfriend...he'll come and start a conversation with you...someday...or he might even tell you what is happening to him...
Hope this helps=)
2007-10-27 22:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend is mad at me and I dont know what to do either. Keep me in on how it is going and maybe you can give me advice!
2007-10-27 23:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by always_smile010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few days. let him think it through himself. it won't last fore ever. by the way is this the same guy that you were never going to talk to again?
2007-10-28 14:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't sorry for the thing that he's upset about then maybe you aren't the friend you fancy yourself to be and he's right to cut ties with you.
2007-10-27 23:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rick H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋