I view this woman as my spiritual mother. Whenever we are in the same room or area with each other... along with other people present, I notice that she always has her eyes on me...watching me. When I am sad or not myself, she comes to me and wants to know what is going on with me. There has been a time when she has called me DEAR. I called her on the phone one night and confided in her about some problems that I was having with my mother and she directed me to the right conclusion. A couple of weeks later, she asked me if I did what she advized me to do, etc...she is serous about me getting things straight with my mother. Why? She has even told me to call her when I need to talk to her about anything. How does she feel about me? What does her actions indicate?
2007-10-27 14:19:11 · 8 answers · asked by **Sparkle** 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
good for you that you have this person in your life who cares about you and is like a mother to you but not interfering with your relationship with your mother. id say she just wants to be your other mother, which i mean in a good way. she thinks of you as her own daughter.
2007-10-27 18:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You view this woman as your Spiritual Mother, but yet you have doubts about her intentions toward you? I think your Spiritual Mother is more perceptive and intuitive because she is seeing signal alerts from you, your body language.
Maybe all she wants is to help you free yourself from the bondage of personal issues you harbor deep inside.
I think she just wants to earn your trust, and to let you know that she is there for you if you need a shoulder to lean on.
Sometimes we just need a spiritual hand up to get back on track in this world of let downs. For now, turn off your internal
security alarm and let her help you help yourself.
2007-10-27 17:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has she given you any signals that she's ...well, a lesbian?
Because she obviously likes you as a friend or she wouldn't be trying to help you & talk you through things.
Are you a lesbian?
...Because it could also be that you are misunderstanding what she is doing due to the fact you could be developing feelings for her.
...Much in the same way people fall in love with their psychiatrists.
The only reason I'm asking about the lesbian angle (no, not because I'm a guy :) ) ...is because of this question by you: "How does she feel about me?"
...& the original question of "What does she want?"
Usually a friend doesn't "want anything" other than to help.
...My .2
2007-10-27 14:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by hopscotch 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
She may be maternal and see her younger self in you and desire that sisterhood of mentoring a younger women. Or, she may be sexually attracted to you. Either way, she sounds like she means you no harm. So, enjoy her friendship. Just because she may be sexually attracted to you and you are not interested in her like that does not mean you cannot enjoy each other as good friends. Never turn down giving friendships.
2007-10-27 14:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Itsounds like she just cares about your well being now and in the future. She sounds like a wonderful friend to me.
2007-10-27 15:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Libby 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You view her as your spiritual mother and thats exactly what she is being to you....she cares about you
2007-10-27 14:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by JustChillin 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
if this is a person close to your age, she might envy u and therefore wants to know you r every move or envies that u have a relationship with your mom. if she is much older than u u might remind her of someone and wants to make sure everything is good with u.
2007-10-27 14:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by balller360 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
she want's to be your friend.
2007-10-27 18:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋