You need to get some friends that are on your level and can thus appreciate you, so get out to place where you will most likely find them like Satsang, possibly Healing Circles, and don't overlook meetup.com groups in hobbies you like (e.g. music, dance, other sports, languages, etc).
While you're doing this, you need to work on getting a decent job...do what you got to do but play it smart.
And even while all this is happening, work on getting in shape in a healthy but efficient manner so you will look more nice in fashionable dress, makeup, and hair and get enough sleep.
*You might need to make some affirmations you say throughout the day (get a multi-alar clock), also have a schedule of the most effiient actions that will lead to accomplishing your goals (e.g. sadhana, sattvic diet, exercise, *bathing, **rewarding yourself with shopping and salon as you can afford, doing what moves you be it art or sport, keeping good company: be it live peopl and the movies/music you watch/listen to, etc), regular sleep and wake, *also take a good multi, & **as possible, consider seeing a good therapist if you can (sometimes friends can do this for you, but don't burn them out, be fair) , and ***google "Vision Video" and make one.
*Also I imagine that you feel bad and eat to stuff feelings and then feel bad and isolate because of weight gain. Stop commiting financial suicide and charging food and medicate with the good habits above. It might not clear up over night or anywhere near it, but there is light at the end of the tunnel...a lot of it!!:!!
2007-10-27 14:06:19
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answered by Jack Bent 4
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First I don't know what your situation is and no one can devine it without you being present in person or having a real photograph of you, something that you hold dear, etc.
Success is a self induced state if mind - one that that you already possess and all you require is some practice at considering yourself a success rather than a failure. OR Accepting the failures as success and learning from them.
Pleasing the Divine or God is something that you must choose and decide for yourself. Evidently you have some belief patterns that seem to tell you that you require punishment, Which Of Course Is Just Rediculus Thinking, what could you possibly do wrong in the eyes of God - NOW Of Course You Could Do Something Wrong in the eyes of someone that interprets the word of God in a skewed way. That person may be telling you that you are sinner and in need of some sort of redemption. However - Consider the next statement very carefully:
I Am Already Whole Complete and Perfect Just The Way I Am!!
Fundamentally the choice is either I am fundamentally flawed or I am fundamentally whole complete and perfect. Again the choice is yours to make. What will you choose?
In the eyes of God we are all perfect because he created us in his own image, then he created a physical form that most represented the likeness that fit that image. Therefore the only possible person that could think otherwise is me, myself and I - OR - Someone that wants me to believe otherwise for some reason or other. The question is what is that reason?
Who is that person in the mirror
What is that person in the mirror
Where is that person in the mirror going
What is the person in the mirrors purpose/mission
Life is a choice make the choice to live
2007-10-27 22:08:59
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answered by dennywisard 2
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Question: Tell me what I ought to hear to succeed.
Answer: Quit looking for answers from mystical mumbo-jumbo, step in and make your own decisions and take charge of your life. People who claim to want to help you with "powers" are only out for your money. The only way to success is through hard work.
2007-10-27 21:07:06
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answered by WhenInDoubt 2
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The answer to all problems, lies within the problem itself and within you. After all it is your problem, you must solve it, if you truly want to.
2007-10-27 21:58:07
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answered by bigger_than_bear 2
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You need to repent of your sins, you need to admit you did wrong. You need to apologize to those you have offended. You need to ask their forgiveness, you need to ask God's forgiveness. You need to realize that there is a Higher Power and you need to learn to take responsibility for your own actions. You need to forgive those who have hurt you, and you need to forgive God.
You need to open your heart and let it go.
Good luck.
2007-10-27 21:06:04
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answered by enn 6
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Deep down you know what you need to do.
be true to yourself and follow your heart.
you'll get there.
2007-10-27 21:12:52
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answered by Insane 5
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You will need: one spoon, one syringe, one belt, one ciggarette filter, heroin, and the will to stamp out any hope that may remain in your soul.
2007-10-27 21:13:24
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answered by Ranger Danger 2
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nothing will fall on your lap.. hard work will get what you want!
2007-10-27 21:03:33
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answered by Anonymous
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