Well at a party yesterday I lost my viginity to my gf and afterwards we talked about what had just happened
after almost an hour of talking we desided it would be best to not tell anyone besides one choosen person (each)
is that a good idea I mean neither one of us wanted to get in trouble or have this major talk on stuff our school already talks about is that a logical thing to have done?
2007-10-27 13:38:29 · 16 answers · asked by Robs Fish Co. 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
oh forgot I'm 14 and my gf's 15
2007-10-27 13:39:32 · update #1
we used protection and the person I told my older brother is not one to tell things to other people I completely trust him to keep this on the down low
2007-10-27 13:46:13 · update #2
justine my gf's an only child
2007-10-27 14:03:01 · update #3
HEY BUDDY IT OK. i AM 14 ALSO, but i still am a virgin. Just pick one person and dont ever tell ur parents or they will ship u of to a sweedish school and u will come ome when you are 21. Just stay low and stay cool, but if she becomes pregnet confess and everything should be ok.
It alright realx and I hope u had a good time.
2007-10-27 13:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well it was responsible because it was protected. As for the one person being told each it is always hard to tell this kind of stuff but most of the time you really want to so good idea. What really concern me though is age you should think.
2007-10-27 22:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you don't want anyone knowing, then you don't need to tell ANYONE. At your age, if someone you knew (and honestly think about this) told you that they lost their virginity, wouldn't you want to tell someone else? Even if YOU don't, you can't be 100% sure that the 1 person (each) that yall tell is going to keep it secret. My opinion, don't tell anyone. AND BOTH OF YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX!
2007-10-27 20:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In 6 weeks she's going to start complaining of nausea and tummy rumblings. In 4 months both your parents are going to kick your as ses and all 4 parents will be arguing with one another, the parents of the male 14 y/o will probably get slapped with a $250,000 paternity lawsuit by the parents of the female teen. And allll because you just couldn't keep it in your pants. congrats and enjoy never getting to sample a different piece of *** the next 18 years without getting hit with a paternity suit yourself.
2007-10-27 20:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by troybuddy 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you are worried about "getting in trouble" you are too young to be having sex! Don't make this mistake again, and I hope you used a condom or you better start looking for a crib!
2007-10-27 20:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by xchasingsummerx 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess you are are each entitled to have one person to talk to about what happened. but considering you guys are young...who ever you tell (unless an adult) will most likely was the gossip around... so wouldnt advice it.
also, be safe in sex. you dont know how many teens get pregnant.
2007-10-27 20:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by ☆ღღ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just keep it like that. I mean its your personal business and if you don't want to have people talk or criticize you then just keep it like that!
2007-10-27 21:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just understand that each person you each tell, will more than likely, tell two people and they will tell someone else...and so on. you would both be better off if you kept this to yourselves
2007-10-27 20:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yupp
it'sa don't ask don't tell kinda thing
happens a lot with a lot of people
what happens on the bedroom stays in the bedroom
2007-10-27 20:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
i think that is a really good idea other wise if you told more people than there is a better chance that it will get out
good job playa
2007-10-27 22:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋