2007-10-27 13:33:09 · 19 answers · asked by kjking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, it's ok to find other people attractive. i see other men that i think are attractive all the time. the important thing is that you don't act upon the attraction. appreciating beauty is just fine. your wife probably does the same thing. it's ok to look. no touchy though.
2007-10-27 13:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
How are you looking at them? Certainly you have to physically look at coworkers or other women in your life but you shouldn't be looking at them lustfully or thinking about them in a sexual way. That is mentally cheating on your wife. From your question it seems like you're looking for an excuse to look at other women in a wrong way. It is disrespectful toward your wife and shows your blatant disregard for your marriage.
2007-10-27 21:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rockit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your a good man for even asking this question. As a woman it makes me cringe when I see my man looking at another women but I have to remind myself that it is human nature. It is part of your biological nature to admire the beauty of other women. Look, admire, but never touch and NEVER stare!!!
2007-10-28 02:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom used to say all of the time "Just because you're on a diet, doesn't mean that you can't check out what's on the buffet." Looking is not a crime so long as you don't touch. Whenever my husband and I go out I'M usually the one that points out the 'hot chicks' to him! It's kind of a game for us. The female body is like an artform, so who wouldn't look at a beautiful moving sculpture? Perhaps you should find out what your wife's views are on this...That may help make it a little easier on your conscience.
2007-10-27 20:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by BlackSparrow 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Looking is fine; touching is not.
BTW, she is probably checking out cute guys - it's not a big deal to look. Everyone does it. Just don't touch.
2007-10-27 20:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by Pam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you like it if the shoe was on the other foot? Of course it's wrong
2007-10-28 00:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by so_delicious79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can look, but run from any temptation, as we are temped every day with things in life its only when we act on it that its wrong, its only when it hurts others that u shouldn't do it.
2007-10-27 20:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking is not wrong, touching is.
2007-10-27 21:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a man for ya.
Seen a man do it yesterday.
when he was passing
mention - checking out the women are ya??
lol mention back he couldn't help himself
2007-10-28 08:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't touch, and you're fine!!
I've been married almost 20 years, my hubby still looks--I'd be shocked if he stopped looking!
2007-10-27 20:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋