divorce i have been trying to be together again but she is very descret person i can not find out what she want out of this relationship every time i spoke to her i can see wanting on her face but she is not spitting it out any advice will be appriciated .
2007-10-27 12:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop asking questions and start dating her. Take her out, show her a good time, without any expectations of anything. At some point when you feel closer, ask her to go to marriage counseling with you.
Reading material that might help:
Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw
Divorce Busters by Michelle Weiner-Davis
Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman
Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix
Love in the Present Tense: How to Have a High Intimacy, Low Maintenance Marriage by Morrie and Arleah Shechtman
A Couple's Guide to Communication, John Mordechai Gottman
2007-10-28 08:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she longs for the intimacy you had and the closeness in the beginning of the relationship. But that is different than wanting to get back together again. You probably feel comfortable to her. I think the window of opportunity has gone since it has been 2 years already. I would try to get some help moving on in your life. You can still love your wife and your child and have a productive happy relationship with someone who wants to be with you.
2007-10-27 12:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by greyskymourning82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to get counseling if she will agree to that, or if she is not involved with someone else, you have to prove to her that you want this to work and want her back. Do the things you did to make her love you in the first place, flowers, take her somewhere nice for dinner, get involved with doing things together with your daughter and so on. Thousands of people say that they have changed to get an ex wife or friend back and then never do so you have to prove to her that you want her back and want to make her happy. Good luck to you!!
2007-10-27 12:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to seek some professional help on how to effectively communicate with others. you should not have to be pulling anything out of her or trying to read her facial expressions to figure out what she is feeling. she needs to grow up and talk. GodBless
2007-10-27 12:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she needs to feel safe when she talks to u, she needs to feel as if she can say anything and u won't reject what she says. in order for a woman to open up emotionally she needs to feel it is safe and she can talk to u about anything. perhaps at one point u found fault with what she was saying, so she may have closed up not trusting u emotionally.
2007-10-27 14:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋