if in the beginning of your marriage you worked a job, cooked & cleaned while your husband did nothing. then you have a baby and become too tired to do those things anymore. If your husband did help you , would you leave him
2007-10-27 10:57:09 · 8 answers · asked by bETtEr ThINg 2 CoMe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
id try and change that but if it wont happen then ya id prob go.
2007-10-27 11:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my story and it true, was married for 31 years getting a divorce now, got married at age 20 worked my butt off to get a home he put us into dept for 30 years running put credit cards, I worked 50-60 hours a week, I did everything around the house because he wouldn't I found that out a year after we were married, at age 30 had my daughter, age 35 became disabled, the husband could care less what happened to us, daughter turns age 20 I filed for a divorce, He age 55 ran home to mom and dad, how cute, I'm disabled and will be for life, HE never lifted a finger to help out, I'm on my own now, my daughter stays with me most of the time, I need the help and the company is good too. I filed for divorce, I do not regret doing this it cost me everything I worked so hard for all my money went to the lawyer and he's well worth it, I put on the best front for people, but I think most saw thought this. If the two of you can't work it out then call it quits and deal with life, ok do not wait as long as I did, I'm older but wiser and I'm alone miss the companionship of a man,...... as bad as it was.
2007-10-27 11:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I knew he was that way before, I probably wouldn't leave him. I'd just stop cooking and cleaning for him.
If you can't handle that, hire a maid, or perhaps get a mommy's helper. Teenage girls are very eager to watch babies while Mom takes some time to breathe and do the day to day stuff.
2007-10-27 11:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did leave mine, for that and other things. I did everything and I could barely get him to take out the garbage. I even got both cars oil changes. His point of view was he was working a few more hours than I was, so he didn't have to do anything. This belief was so strong, that nothing worked. I finally gave up.
2007-10-27 11:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you think he was gonna change just because you have a child ? should have nipped this in the butt in the early stages.. tell him to get off his azz and get a job .. no need for you to take care of TWO children... and always remember you should, when ever possible be with someone that can do for you like you can do for them.. good luck...later
2007-10-27 11:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by fella251_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have laid the foundation before you got married.
2007-10-27 11:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce is not the soloution but the begning of the trouble.
2007-10-27 11:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by little girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you just need a vacation.
2007-10-27 11:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋