My uncle died and he shows up in my dreams. What should I do? Is he trying to tell me something?

Question

He died and he was sorta scary to me. When I think of him a lot i kinda shake.

Answer 1

There could be some very simple reasons for your dreams. If his death was recent and you are still dealing with the services and family affairs then this could explain why he is in your dreams. if the dream is the exact same dream over and over then write down everything about the dream. It could be his way of passing a last message. Never rule out anything. When my mother died it was sudden and very unexpected. My oldest was 15 yrs old at the time. She had the same dream a couple of nights in a row telling her my mom was at peace and would always be with us. If the dream happens again try to ask why you and what he needs to pass on. Don't be afraid to tell your parents or your uncles family. Maybe the dream means nothing to you but it might to someone else. This could also be your own mind giving you a chance to come to terms with your own feelings about your uncle. Good luck.

Answer 2

I hear you - but don't worry. You're shaking because you clearly loved & miss him. Thats natural. But don't forget to shake with laughter & love thinking of him to. About the dreams -

You don' t "do" anything but keep dreaming and treasure you memories of your time together and revere it. He was a part of your life, he died, and your mind is thinking of him - whether you're asleep or awake - thats called dreaming

Listen - you're ALWAYS dreaming - 24 hours a day - there is no time of day the mind isn't cranking out the weirdness that we think of as 'dreams' at night.

But only part of that 24 hour day (about 16 hours) are you awake for the dream - see? You're totally knocked out for about 8 hours to dream to rest your body...a result of daylight & night. While you're awake you're also dreaming - that is 1) daydreaming (same as dreaming) and 2) paying attention to your 3-D life on earth. He was always part of your dream until he died - only now he's no longer alive for the living part of the dream.

Besides - what would he say from the dead that anyone here can't tell you now if it were it possible? There doesn't have be some TV-like 'message' from the dead all the time. You simply live your life, treasure it, love it, and then let it go in death.

If you think you see your uncle in a dream - you see him. I can't say whether he's talking to you or not but it doesn't really matter whether its 'him' or you brain in your dream. Just pay attention, feel it, and remember that it's probalby just your brain spinning, remembering, thinking.

Ultimately your'e trying to tell yourself something - you loved and missed your uncle. You can't box that up or own it - it is memory and dream now. So dream about him. Thats good enough.

Answer 3

he want be back he was trying to warn you warn you of something comming up i love it when someone i love come to me in a dream i know to pray and ask GOD to pass it over once my son was fixten to wreck hit a tree at that moment my father woke me up at 5am to pray for my kids which i thought was home in there bed i didnt undersstand till 7am and his life was spared the car was a total lost and to this day all who saw the car was puzzled but it was GOD mercy and my deceased father saved his life the weired thing this happen 2 years ago and again same son 2 weeks ago we asked if he had 9 lives and how many was left tree auto total and hes still here

Answer 4

sorry to hear but my grandmother died in 2006 an the lights where blanking off an on she was saying she wish she was here

Answer 5

Possibly.... try asking him in your dreams why do you keep dreaming about him....

He might have felt your fear of him... and is trying to tell you, you didn't need to fear him.....

Answer 6

maybe he knows you were scared of him so he's trying to change your mind?