My wife left me after she has got an Airlines job.We are not in talking terms for 4 months,she wanted a divorce but since then she's hiding from me,even from her friends & relatives.I cant contact her since I dont know her number or address.I heard she's living with her brother.But her family is refusing to help me.I'm getting mad and memories are killing me.Should I wait for her or do some action
2007-10-27 07:45:41 · 11 answers · asked by betrayed2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont know what I did to my wife,probably MONEY played a rule here, but I was 100% sincere and faithful as a husband. I still love her and I've tried to save our marriage in many ways.Now I understand I cant forget her and cant get rid of our memories until I marry another girl. I'm a very simple person and always wanted a simple normal life. But fortune didn't favor me.
2007-10-27 08:13:35 · update #1
dude its over , if by 4 months she hasn't tried to patch things up, Then the chance of getting back together is near zero. You just need to move own the fact you dint have her number or address just means she doesn't want to talk to you and doesn't want to even try . If she really wanted to fix things , she would have tried to by now .Just give her a divorce and find someone who can be faithful to you and want leave you at the drop of a hat no matter what she says if she really loved you she would not have left . You need to get own with your own life . I am always try to give advise to married couples to work things out but its clear she don't want to work things out and you just need to move own its not going to be easy but you need to move own with your life .
2007-10-27 08:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by ted75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since she's getting out of her ways not to be found, I'd let go.
You can start legal action if you want, to get a divorce. At the end of the day, you seem to have plenty of grounds for that.
She probably will come out and give you her reasons in her own time, so, I'd suggest not to wait for her. This could take a long time.
Good luck.
I feel for you, as this must be horrible.
Good luck.xxx
2007-10-27 14:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say...do what you think feels right. There has to be more than that to be the reason for her to have left you. Maybe dig more into it...she might even have someone else or there is something she learned about you that she does not like. Is there a secret you are keeping from her and maybe she found out?
Write her an e-mail, a nice e-mail. Ask her politely what she would like to do and take it from there. Keep everything in writing because you should protect yourself just in case she gets bitter. Do it through e-mails.
2007-10-27 15:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you have already made a decision.
you are thinking about remarrying before the first marriage is over.
don't wait for her to make a move because what if she doesn't do anything. your heart is not in the marriage anymore, so why stay?
make your decision and stand by it
2007-10-27 14:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by karMA_DAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been only 4 months and you're talking about getting married again already???? No wonder she left..... you don't give us any details on why she left in the first place.
2007-10-27 14:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by DavidV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like she's made her decision.
If you don't want to live in emotional purgatory, then YOU need to do something for YOU.
Personally, I would not wait on anyone that abandoned me for four months. Sometimes it has to be about YOU too.
2007-10-27 14:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still take action.
If she left and is hiding, then get filed for divorce and don't look back.
2007-10-27 14:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not divorce her and learn to be comfortable living by yourself then re-marry when the time is right?
2007-10-27 17:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, let her initiate the divorce if that is what she is wanting. In the meantime take care of yourself - I can feel your pain!
2007-10-27 14:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her for abandonment.
2007-10-27 15:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋