I really like the boyfriend I have now, but I want to keep my husband happy. I don't know what to do. My husband said maybe I should get a girlfriend,. But I don't like that idea.
2007-10-27 04:30:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know ---- tough question. I think I would keep this boyfriend, and just go behind your husbands back and see him......but, also, I would get a new boyfriend that your husband approves of (otherwise he might get suspicious)!
2007-10-27 08:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband says I shouldn't see my boyfriend any more. Should I get a new boyfriend?
2014-12-15 16:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband allows you to have a boyfriend??? if he is that open he shouldn't care if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend...unless you are talking about a guy who is your friend..in that case your husband might be a bit jealous of your relationship with your friend. talk to your hubby and find out why he doesn't want you to see him, but do it in a way that makes ur hubby feel like your thinking about what he said and just want some more info. before you make ur decision. hubby might have a good reason!
2007-10-27 04:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are married. You also have a boyfriend? What is going on? What is the matter with your husband that you have to be playing around with some other guy.
What you do is stop seeing this "Boyfriend" and pay attention to the realtionship - if indeed there is any - that you have with your husband.
What in hell do you need a boyfriend for. Marriage is supposed to be exclusive. You had best think about what you are doing and what the inevitable rsult will be if you keep trying to have entertainment on the side.
2007-10-27 04:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by organbuilder272 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm pretty sure you're referring boyfriend as a male friend. (You have to be careful how you say it on here because people can take your words the wrong way.)
I think that if your husband loves you and trusts you he will accept the friendship that you have with this guy as long as your are one hundred percent positive that nothing is going on.
One of my best friends is a male also and my fiance is totally accepting of it. I have him over sometimes to socialize with my fiance as well so that we can all get along.
2007-10-27 05:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the blue helll would you have a boyfriend if your married anyhow. Thats just wrong . Either grow up and get rid of the boyfriend like your husband asked you to or let your husband go and get a divorce and you stay with the boyfriend . But warn him that if your cheating with him that you will cheat on him as well. Once a cheater always a cheater. HOW SAD!!!!!!!!
2007-10-27 04:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by dollbaby2407 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What?? Why do you have a boyfriend when you're married? Do you have an open relationship? Maybe your husband wants you to have a girlfriend so he can join in? Or maybe you're a troll?
2007-10-27 04:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Xai 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK, how old are you and why would you ask a silly question like this?? LOL. Just don't get a new boyfriend or stay with the one you have, get a Ken doll to play with.
2007-10-27 04:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by tootie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you and this guy are really good friends. I would stay good friends with him i have Lot of boy-friends.But your husband my feel threaten by him so that is probably why he don't want you to be his friend any. Moore. Go on what your heart says. Only you know what to do. Good luck.
2007-10-27 04:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie_kanode 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm...you have a hubby and a boyfriend! what a dreamland you're living in!!! what would be the difference between a new and old bf to your hubby then?
2007-10-27 05:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋