The guy is a client but he really likes the person who is working with him but she's married and he feels guilty about his feelings for her but he wants to tell her but he knows he shouldn't because she's married and he knows it's wrong to have those feelings. But, still what should he do about those feelings I mean should he tell her he's got a crush on her or should he not tell. But, if he doesn't tell her then how's the best way for him to handle a situation like this where he's with her for 1 or more days and she's the person who picks him up from his house and he's the client? But, at the same time the reason she picks him up from his house is because he has no car and no job yet.
2007-10-27 03:15:00 · 6 answers · asked by mansteve_man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
But what happens if I'm that guy and don't want those feelings?
2007-10-27 03:20:21 · update #1
Once you think about it it kinda is nasty if you think about 9-year diff. But, still he thinks she looks cute so how can he counteract the crush feelings?
2007-10-27 03:22:36 · update #2
It is not good for you to have these feelings for a married women because chances are she probably does not even look at you that way because she has made a commitment to someone else to spend the rest of her life with and you are a client. I think the best thing for you to do is just not to let your feelings get too envolved because in the long run you will just be hurting yourself. Just start to date other people to get your mind off of this crush. do not tell her that you have a crush on her have respect for a married women because if you were married you would not want someone do that to your wife.
2007-10-27 03:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Nurse Gray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong, if she is married move on. A sign of mature man is to make right decisions and the respect the institutions of the culture he lives in. 21 I fell in and out of love many times before I married at 35 to a 45 year old who is best thing to happen to me.
2007-10-27 03:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Dale D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband was six years younger, my ex boyfriend was ten years younger and my current boyfriend is nine years younger than me.
It's just a number.
The age difference is not the issue.
It's the SHE"S MARRIED that is an issue.
You may tell her you find her really attractive and leave it at that. It'll make her feel great that you think so (younger man!!!) and you will not have DONE THE DEED and screwed up someone's marriage.
2007-10-27 03:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by audacious440 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a crush. They are great feelings. It's all in your head. Don't do or say anything. You won't regret it. Besides she taken.
2007-10-27 03:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by midwestgirl483 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats nasty you need somehelp maybe if you were closer to her age but thats 9 yr defference but whatever makes you happy
2007-10-27 03:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Paige M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is a married woman.... tell him to leave her alone!
2007-10-27 03:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by goingcrazy121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋