that when he/she is out of your life, no one can come close to her/him...that you will never love any other again as much as you loved him/her. Now this is not so easy for me to accept since i've been through a few relationships...all of these are serious relationships...i don't play around, when i fall inlove, i fall hard and i'm always faithful and devoted.
each time i feel that i loved them sincerely...but when it's time to let go. I never experienced "NOT" being able to do so completely. Does this mean i haven't experienced "True Love"?
I'm 37 now...had a few bfs, been married, left my husband, went through annulment, now he's dead (so i'm an illigitimate widdow..heh),had a live in partner, broke up with him,fell inlove again..got dumped.., fell inlove again just recently with someone who refuses to love me back broke up again..
yet...i never had anyone who is totally irreplaceable in my heart and mind....as how people describes their "lost True love.
So what do you think?
2007-10-27 02:40:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
@Jan...i never look for people to fall for...they just come....so everytime i can't help but think "this is it...this must be my destiny"
as i think about all of it right now...it's really quite amusing...and funny even.
the way i loved them so much...and the way i get over them in no time.
2007-10-27 03:12:51 · update #1
@lizzie
thank you very much for your comment...it made my heart smile. God Bless.
2007-10-27 03:15:06 · update #2
i think it's all about how each one of us is emotionally capable to handle heartaches and other negative experiences in our life. love is a very subjective thing and no other person can really say whether you are really in love or not except for your own self. if you get over a lost love easily, then good for you! better if you can fall in love again with another person after the pain you've gone through. and i don't think of it as an evidence that you were not truly in love with your former sweetheart but it is just a proof that you still have so much love to give. actually, we all do. it's just that some people cannot get over a heartbreak that easily simply because they don't want to let go. and they THINK that they can never love anyone ever again. it's just all in the mind, most of the time. so girl, i think there's nothing wrong with you. one advice though: after a failed romance, always try to analyze what went wrong. this is so you won't make the same mistake again in your next relationship. sometimes we just have to experience a lot of heartbreaks to learn all the lessons we need to learn before God will finally allow us to meet the RIGHT one whom he has prepared for us. of course, we need to be perfect when that time comes, right? well, goodluck to you and may love always guide your way!
2007-10-27 03:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All love is "true"; just occurring at different times, different places, fulfilling different needs at different times in our life. In my opinion, all love ultimately, is a form of "self love" -in a positive sense. Soul mates meet, hopefully help one another "grow" for a period, then life moves on. Sometimes relationships become one sided, with one partner giving more that the other, ideally mistakes are things we should learn from as we mature. As well as differentiating between different kinds of "love". No one is irreplaceable, but it does not mean some relationships are not more meaningful, at deeper levels, than others.
2007-10-27 02:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by moonbeam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can write your opinion on what you think it is like, and actually make it seem believeable because love is different for everyone, so someone cannot say that you haven't you experienced it. its the same concept as modern writers writing about historical events, they write about what they read, learned, and researched. But they never experienced it because they didn't live in that time period. That is also the great thing about writing something, when you can make something seem so believeable even tho it can't possibly be, then you can call yourself a good writer. =)
2016-04-10 21:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe that is true.
I've had a few relationships also but have never forgotten the boy I knew when I was 15. He went into the Navy , I lost track of him, but still haven't forgotten him and still wishing I could see him.
2007-10-27 02:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me you fall in love very easily.
Along with love comes acceptance, commitment, tenacity and even more important friendship.
My husband and I have been married 40 years. Without
acceptance, commitment, tenacity and friendship we would not have made it two years. But then again maybe I was just lucky.
2007-10-27 02:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there should be more to this question. What is true? True love, real love, lasting love, is non-existent in our world. Sorry to break the news to you, but there is no such thing as true love. It's just part of "the human condition", it's in our DNA.
2007-10-28 20:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a rainbow. At least, you got all the light pass into your prism and the colors were mostly wonderful, I guess, and magnificent.
2007-10-27 03:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lance 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is different for everyone. i think a true love is someone you think of from time to time fondly (or sadly) and think, what could have been? and it's not that they are irreplaceable in your mind but in our heart.
and sometimes you are with that person forever so you don't have the heartache.
2007-10-27 02:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's true that u can't. I still can't get over my first love and it's been 3 years.
2007-10-27 02:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not get over this, sure you can forget and there memory will fade... but they will still have a place in your heart no matter what you do.
2007-10-27 04:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by Old School 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋