i like to date woman but once they go out with you 3 or 4 times there talking marriage i dont ever want to get married just live with a woman for a while free to leave when ever i want
2007-10-27 01:04:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get over yourself. Yes they might want to get married one day, it might not necessarily be to you right there and then. It is a general topic even your mum talks to you about.
I've been with my man for 8 years and we are not married. We talked about it in general early on in the relationship but I certainly had no intention of getting married anytime soon.
I cant say I have ever know a woman to want to get married within months of meeting someone so you are either extremely unluckily meeting wedding psychos or you have paranoia.
PS, when you do find the right person, you can still "live free"
What a horrible way to look at marriage? Stuck and tied down without freedom. Not in my house!
Love will smack you in the face one day and you will have no idea how you ever lived without this person.
Love is freedom.
2007-10-27 01:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by robynsbeauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple, they want whats in your wallet! Im your typical gold digger, I know how us women work! Of course even I wouldnt jump so fast as to talk marriage after a mere 3 months, so this leads me to believe that some of these women are not so much in love with you as they are the idea of marriage itself. Women tend to want stability and security, so we tend to seek out men with money, I mean how else are we to survive? I know I sound cold maybe even a bit rude, and dont get me wrong, Im a good person, Im only telling you like it is, Im being honest! Most women, and I say most! Not all, want to marry fast because she doesnt want to lose a good thing, also most women want a man who has a bank account, car, home and all the other normal things in life, so beware of women who try to rush the idea of marriage, if one talks of marriage, you can shut the topic down by telling her that you dont believe in marriage, because if you say, Im not ready or maybe someday I.ll get married, this only makes them want you more, so close the door on the topic by just keeping it simple and tell them your not interested in marriage, and leave it at that.
2007-10-27 01:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women do. I had a bf for 10 months and we never discussed it, and honestly I didn't think of it either..because he told me when we first met that he didn't want to get married again...of course it's 2 1/2 years later and he is getting married again sometime soon..so you may change your mind in the future too. So maybe tell the girl first thing what you are wanting or expecting.
2007-10-27 01:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by typerchic34 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a compliment.
All women want to get married, it is a natural instinct, and by mentioning marriage to you, she is telling you she thinks you are a good catch, and she wants to start a family.
This trend increases as men and women get older.
The other thing it could be is that she is desperate and doesn't want to loose you, but the real tragedy is that when women are honest, they accomplish the opposite of what they intend by scaring off their significant other.
2007-10-27 01:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lord of Chaos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's turn the tables here for the sake of balance...why do men think women should put out after they go out with you 3 or 4 times? It's because the highest reward of love for a woman is marriage...sex is the highest reward of love for a man.
2007-10-27 01:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about 7 years or 3 years of dating lol
2007-10-27 01:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was with my partner and we were only together for three months, I was going on rants about how stupid marriage was and how I would never get married, now I am engaged, but opinions change. I think you're dating the wrong kind of women, you know, the desperate kind. It could be that you're saying things such as, "I love you." and having sex with them and they could be immature and think that that means you're 'the one'.
2007-10-27 01:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by some female 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear Sunny -live free sounds like your not ready for marrage that girl you were with wants to get married point blank say " yeah but that's something I'm not ready for in my life right now" .
2007-10-27 01:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are picking the same type of women maybe. because most women are so not into marriage after just three months.
2007-10-27 01:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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