I guess I do it because he knows what he's doing...but sometimes I picture someone else or other things going on...and I think I only do it because I'm in the mood and want penitration...and hes easy access.... is this wrong of me?
2007-10-26 22:17:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lot of people fantasize while thy're doing it. it's not wrong unless the whole time you're doing it is that you're thinking of someone else.
i think you're just feeling sorry if you would leave him, but i suggest you do it as soon as possible.
2007-10-26 22:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is definitely wrong. I don't mean to sound judgmental, but you guys weren't put on this earth to be sex recepticles.
I've always believed that you should only have sex within marriage. However, at the VERY LEAST you should care about your partner.
If you're out having sex with people you don't even care about just because it feels good and because the other person is easy access, it really shows that you don't respect yourself or your body very much.
What would happen if you ended up getting pregnant with a kid whose father you didn't even care about. Have you ever thought about that?
2007-10-27 05:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some time apart from each other, some time on your own - and believe me, you'll know what you want afterwards and be courages to take the desicion and to announce, whether it was you still want him or you want to leave him.
If you decide afterwards (after having time for yourself, even if it were a week) if you decided that you want him, have a vacation together and spice up your life.
If you decided you're ready to move on, then do so and don't feel guilty about it.
For now, I really believe you need time alone. go somewhere for the weekend, just by yourself or with a girl friend.
2007-10-27 05:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married and things arn't working out for you with your partner then you should have a talk with your partner. If you are picturing someone then you need the truth no matter what it takes.
If your partner is with someone else you have the choice to leave him but that depends if its your choice or his.
I hope the best takes place.
God bless.
2007-10-27 05:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Furqan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess not.
But where it can get dangerous is if you start dating or cheating outside of the relationship (for the very reason that you're no longer attracted to him).
Just let him know before it gets to THAT point.
Also...to not let him go because he's good in bed is kinda selfish.
You don't want him, but apparently he knows how to work it, so you don't want anyone else to have him, either.
2007-10-27 05:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by gabound75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, indeed it is wrong . because your using him as if he is a Dildo or somthing similar to it . in other way you are making him an object . so try to break up in a good way , or just tell him about what you feel . like this you will be fair . good luck
2007-10-27 05:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by jo n jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fickle minded and not really doing justice to your partner.
Do whatever you want, but you need some self introspection.
2007-10-27 05:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong, per se, but it's not fair. Be fair to yourself (and him) and move on. Break up completely and politely.
2007-10-27 05:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes It's very unfair on him, how would you like it if the roll was reversed
2007-10-27 05:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm it is kinda wrong because it isn't fair to him.
2007-10-27 05:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Monkee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋