I just had a total mind game playing user end our relationship last week.
I feel very sad and raw and do NOT want to date anyone fora while.
My friends are going to 3 huge halloween parties tomorrow and are saying that I HAVE to go out tomororw night.
They say if I stay home I am letting my jerky ex win.
I dont know though. I am very busy with grad school and working full time.
This weekend is one of my free weekends and I could just rent movies, order take out and relax at home.
Which is better with a broken heart ?
2007-10-26 21:47:25 · 19 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely, I would go out!!! Have a blast! Living well is your best revenge! My ex raked me over the coals and thought she could destroy me, but I am having a blast! I found a better girl to date because I didn't lie around licking my wounds like she wished I would. Next weekend, Nov, 2nd, I am taking my new girl to the Ballet, The Three Musketeers with music by Giuseppe Verdi. She will be watching TV, probably some stupid reality show while I am in reality having a better time than I would have ever had with her!
GO, HAVE FUN!
2007-10-26 21:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Alvin York 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest Meadow.
I am sorry that the player hurt you and at least you know the signs for the next time. If i was you morning a loss for a few hours is one thing, but you are free now and the best way to mend a heart is friends. Sometimes it takes a while but they have and always will be there for you. Go to the party dress up like anything you want, relax and enjoy and if there are a few drinks have fun. Even if you hook up with a guy, it's better then staying home eating Ho-Ho's and Milk all night. Plus what better way to forget a guy then going out and having fun all night.
2007-10-27 05:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by ho8er2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your friends decide for you. I'll be honest with you though, it REALLY does help to go out with your girls when you've been heartbroken. No one is saying that you have to start seeing anyone else right away, but you should have fun, it'll definitely distract you from thinking about your "jerky ex." Afterall if once you're out you just don't feel like you can be out there, just go home, I'm sure your friends would understand.
2007-10-27 04:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by calichicka852003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go for a party! U will forget about ur pain for a while which good..this is a poem for ur broken heart:
Oh gentle winds 'neath moonlit skies,
Do not you hear my heartfelt cries?
Below the branches, here about,
Do not you sense my fear and doubt?
Side glistening rivers, sparkling streams,
Do not you hear my woeful screams?
Upon the meadows, touched with dew,
Do not you see my hearts a'skew?
Beneath the thousand twinkling stars,
Do not you feel my jagged scars?
Seek not my mournful heart kind breeze,
For you'll not find it 'mongst these trees.
It's scattered 'cross the moonlit skies,
Accompanied by heartfelt sighs.
It's drifting o're the gentle rain,
A symbol of my silent pain.
It's buried 'neath the meadow fair,
Conjoined with all the sorrow there.
It's lost among the stars this night,
Too far to ease my quiet fright.
No gentle winds, seek not my heart,
For simply ... it has torn apart.
Anyway..hope ur broken heart will heal soon..:)
2007-10-27 05:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by nabila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PARTY!!!!!!!!
Go out and have a great time, it will get your mind off things. If you don't like it you can always leave, right?
Don't let your bastard ex get in the way of you having fun, friends are the best thing for a broken heart. Go have a great time and feel better! <3
2007-10-27 04:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by myleslr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go party only because wallowing in sadness is a waste of time. Time that you won't get back. and wallowing won't change the past. So go out and do the damn thing girl. The only time you should ever wallow is when a partner dies. They are too many people in this world to be crying over one. Get up and go party girl.
2007-10-27 04:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by tribal811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a dude so this may not be the best source of advice. I'd say pull it together and go to the parties. Staying home and chilling out is second to none....However, being at home wishing you'd gone out is the worst.
2007-10-27 04:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by deej1188 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO OUT! I know your feeling down after a brake up but staying at home feeling sorry for yourself is not gonna make you feel any better. So go out and at least try to have some fun. Maybe you'll find "Mr. Right"
2007-10-27 04:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by lina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way 2 mend a broken heart is too have fun. go to the party and dont be such a bore. once your havin fun ya will forget all about him luv yah x
2007-10-27 05:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...if you're like me and you get enjoyment out of being off your feet and alone most of the time, stay at home. If you're active and are a "people person", maybe go to that party and have fun.
2007-10-27 04:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋