But she hypothetically likes me, what does that mean?
She lives in a college dorm, ive vistited twice now and im pretty sure she likes me but she still hangs out a lot with her ex boyfriend whom she is "kinda" dating.
Should i still go for her? I sorta don't get why she still chills with him so much... or should i just leave it?
It's not that strong between us yet so i could forget about it if that's the best option..
2007-10-26 21:45:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like her, go for it, but if you feel you can do better then I feel that is the best choice. It sounds like she is getting to much of her way by talking to anyone she wants and just trying to have her cake and eat it too.
2007-10-26 21:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Dae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she's still 'kinda dating' her ex may mean that she's not over her past relationship yet. If you want her that much as a girlfriend, first let her relationship with her ex come to a closure. If you insist on going for her while she's still 'chilling' with her ex, be prepared for what might happen (you could only get yourself hurt if she chose her ex over you). My suggestion, be patient. Use the time given to you to know her better. Wait for the time when she'd moved on. If she said that she's single, then go for it. But unless she doesn't, hold your horses.
She maybe confused with her emotions right now. I am not saying that she uses you as a consoling shoulder due to her past relationship; do not assume of what she feels about you. Always draw the lines. In that way, the chances of someone hurting in the end would lessen.
2007-10-26 21:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by May_May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her..Ask her what's bothering you...
Maybe she and her ex bf are just friends now that's why she still hang with him...
Not all that we can see is true there are times that we need to know the truth behind what were seeing...
If you like her then go and ask her...Don't just leave her without asking her the truth cos that will be kinda unfair for her...
Who know's his telling his ex that he like some new which is you,....
2007-10-26 21:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by damngirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dude put it this way if she kinda likes u is not enough, either she wants to go out with u or not.
Sounds like she is not over her ex, if u want her then make a play for her ,then u will see exactly where you stand.
Maybe she likes u as a friend only, time to find out once n for all cheers â¥
2007-10-26 21:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hang out with 3 exs and an ex fiance and there's nothin goin on. I just don't have many friends! lol (hangs her head in shame). I guess it depends on the person themselves.
2007-10-26 21:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Alice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Befor giving up ask about it first,they still hang out because they have somehing in common,they could be just friends you know.
2007-10-26 21:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Snowy.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes "kinda" dating him? well just keep at it man, that way at least you still tried. i would go to some movies and stuff so you can get to know her better and find out their situation. good luck man
2007-10-26 21:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by stiki_rice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her ask about it. They could just be friends
2007-10-26 21:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sounds like your just a booty call. your what she does to get away from her rocky relationship. sorry =( i know that sounds harsh
2007-10-26 21:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by jellie42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there still friends
2007-10-26 21:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by lovellg14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋