This a turn off Lady's?

Question

Yes im describing myself im not a grown man im still a teenager but would this overall personallity be a turnoff? He dosent have many friends, is a homebody who just prefers to spend free time at home, and dosent have any previous exsperience with girls, just woundering i made the mistake to quit school to stay at a job i liked but no longer work there, i plan to attened a cc soon, i lost contact with what few friends i had and know i feel stuck, is my lack of a social life and lack of going out all the a huge turnoff? Serious answers even if negitive i dont mind thx

cc = community colledge

Answer 1

Well quiting school to stay at a job you no longer work at was pretty stupid. Sry for the bluntness but take this as constructive criticism. Thats good your trying to get back into school. Another thing how do you expect to find someone if your always at home. Get out your young live life to the fullest. Because staying at home all the time is no way to live. Turnoff YESS!!!!

Answer 2

No I don't think that your social life will be a turn off. I just think that it will be hard for you to meet girls if you are a homebody. You need to put yourself out there and get back in the game. I noticed that you said you quit your job. Do you now have another one, or are you unemployed? The unemployment might be a turn off. Most women like a man who will work and have a little extra cash to take them out. I also see that you are fixing to start CC that is good that you are taking care of your education. It is OK to have made the mistake to drop out of school as long as you move on and get your GED and some college. That will definitely make you feel better about yourself! I think that your lack of experience with girls is fine at your age. Just act confident, and they may never know the difference. If you don't have many friends anymore try going to social activities around your town and meet new people. Even if you make male friends that would be good because you might meet girls thru them. The more people you know the better your chances are. I think that you sound like a really good guy, and shouldn't have any problem finding a great girl!! Good Luck!

Answer 3

Let me tell you this first. Every woman is different. I know a girl who is exactly your type. She is so very quiet and doesnt seem to have many friends. You should try to be a little less of a homebody though if you plan on finding the woman of your dreams. Make sure you get out, even if it is just to the store and to class, once those start, but make sure you are seen.

I just want to say that the only turnoff you described about yourself for me woudl be that you have no experience. It can be changed quickly, but i am a scaredy cat when it comes down to doing things like that...

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good luck hun

Answer 4

Ummm..coming from a girl its kind of a turnoff but personally i really dont care whether youre the most popular guy in skool or you dont have any friends at all! As they all say its the personality that matters. And maybe some looks! LoL!

Answer 5

It just sounds like you've hit a rough patch in the road sweet heart. Any girl who is looking for a serious relationship would find that as a turn off. But just take a deep breath and put things into perspective. It's nothing you can't pull yourself out of. If I were you though I would focus on getting your degree first. You can do it!!

Answer 6

I think that just because you like to spend time at home and don't have many friends doesn't mean you're a turn off. Not everybody can be social butterfly. Like myself, I'm not a social butterfly but i still get on pretty well, have a great bf and everythin. I think you just need to be yourself and the rest will follow.

Answer 7

Your lack of a social life probably makes you feel nervous in social settings and girls most likely pick up on your nervousness, so in short turn off not really but it probably translates as alack of confidence. The best way to fix this is just keep putting yourself in social settings and you will start to feel more comfortable thus looking more confident.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

It is your choice to stay at home and not go out, and you can still reconnect with your old friends. Just get back in school and start meeting new people. . .

Answer 10

Kinda