PLEASE DONT SAY TELL AN ADULT THATS NOT AN OPTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-26 20:56:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Tell her that's pretty gross and disgusting, and ask her why she'd want to do something like that. Try and be supportive, but make it clear that you don't support the purging -- just her!
Ask her to come out for a walk or a jog, or take a dance class or something healthy. That would be good for both of you!
I don't know about telling an adult. What's an adult going to do, anyway? Tell her it's gross and her teeth will fall out? I think all an adult can do is drive it underground. You can help her find info about purging (why it's bad), and you can help her find other ways to take care of herself.
Anyway, if she wants to tell an adult, that's up to her. Support her as much as you can, make it clear that you don't like purging, and if she starts to suck you into some bad lifestyle changes, be prepared to cut her off as a friend. If purging is more important to her than your friendship, then she's got big problems.
2007-10-26 21:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Madame M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a bulimic if she has already purged. The first question is why? It is usually about control. She may feel that her body is the only thing she can control right now. The fact that you said she can't talk to an adult confirms it. Try getting down to the real problem and solving that. She may not feel that her main problem is connected with the puging but it always is.
2007-10-26 21:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She must really have issues with her weight. I bet she's already a thin girl that probably needs to tone up, but thinks she can still eat what she wants as long as she gets rid of it. We all know it's NOT HEALTHY. But maybe YOU should consider working out with your friend, two's provide way more encouragement, that way you both get closer and Reach your goals together so you can share the journey. Or you guys could go on a healthy eating kick and eat light or in moderation. Whatever you decide on, do it with her because she no longer can control it alone so be her "BRA" be her support!
2007-10-26 21:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh well telling an adult is the #1. option but the #2. option is too be there for her, comfort her has much as possible and tell her positive stuff to make her feel like shes not fat or eating too much. just make shure shes eating every day and not skipping meals or not getting the nutriets she needs but if all fails tell an adult because it would be better risking that than for her dieing and you knowing you could have helped.
Thank You- tell me if this helps.
2007-10-26 21:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by James M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will probably be fine. I think a lot of people have tried purging once in their life and didn't end up with an eating disorder. Chill out, calm down and try to make her feel good about herself.
2007-10-26 21:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-27 23:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by bulluck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that shes beautiful and you like her the way she is and that when you do that it really messes up your body and the acid from your stomack f&@Ks up your throut making your throut constantly hurt. i know someone who purged for awhile and she said that her throut would hurt really bad sometimes for no reason. kinda like when you eat a chip but you dont crunch it up enough so it just stratches down your throut? but let her know that its really dangerous and you dont want her to end up being sorry because you can die from bulimia and you dont want her to end up with that.
2007-10-26 21:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. She's not bulimic yet is she? It was only once, if she keeps doing it tell her to see a doctor for mental problems (psychatrist?)
2007-10-26 21:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, if she did that she already has a problem. If you don't tell someone and get her help, you are no friend. Watch her waste away, ruin her health and become miserable, but for gosh sakes, DON"T RAT HER OUT!!
Grow up.
2007-10-26 21:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if she told you about it she prolly made it up to get attention, hopefully you didnt give her much or she will prolly develop the problem. Most people with eating disorders that i ahve known dont tell a soul.
2007-10-26 21:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋