i love someone and im muslim
is that a sin?
u can't love some one?
2007-10-26 14:09:42 · 33 answers · asked by Zaynah 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
will allah be mad it me?
2007-10-26 14:21:24 · update #1
no honey bun its not a sin to love someone
Islam is about love
i think you know what u can and cant do around a man right but u can still love him and one day you can tell you mommy how you feel about him and get married
take care
2007-10-26 14:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 0⤋
no it is not a sin. Why else would Allah let us have feelings. We are suppose to love and be loved by people. But if you love someone don't go to that person and tell him, because that would be haram. Don't ever think its haram, its bad to have a relation with a guy but otherwise its okay to like a guy or have a crush on someone. Allah created us with feelings and he is fair he does not tell us dont like anyone unless your married, no he is the most fair, we can love anyone we want, just within limits if yu not married.
Good Luck!
=)
2007-10-27 05:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The only possible sin might be not loving someone.
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I’m making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
2007-10-26 14:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Salaam Alaykum,
No...the attributes of Islam is love Allah SWT The qualities of a good Muslim is the capacity to love. You must first love Allah SWT before anyone or anything first. But since we are human and have an attraction to the opposite sex or even the same sex...It is my advice to you to love that person..but if it is a male and having more than a friendship can lead to guilt
unless it is consummated by marriage.
Wa Salaam sister, Good Luck.
2007-10-27 03:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. No it can't be a sin to love someone because Islam is all about loving each other
2007-10-27 05:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a sin, it's a virtue!
Yes, it is. What is really a sin is what is committed in the name of love. You know what I mean.
As long as your love is pure, clear and is intended to be a step towards an official relation, marriage, then your love is permissible and blessed isa, otherwise, if you compromise your religious teachings and Allah's commands to fulfill your instinct or your partner's then your relation (can't say love indeed, love is a higher, clean relation) is a sin and cursed.
2007-10-27 04:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Green visitor is back :D 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Love should be with the aim of marrying that person. If there is no possibility that you can ever marry that person, you are only preparing yourself for much anguish and pain. Trust me, sweet pain of love would leave you hollow; it will rob you of your youth.
ALWAYS keep in mind that there are always MANY potential mates for you in this world. When you lose one, a few more appear on the scene. Nature guarantees it.
If you are a Muslim, do marry a Muslim, no matter how beautiful other people seem to be. In the end everybody gets old and wrinkly, and the only thing that would you keep interested in your mate would be shared values.
2007-10-26 14:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Sincere-Advisor 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know better what you are doing inside you. If its true love and meant to be there's noting in this universe that can prevent it from existence. But if you are messing around and just want to use the word love to fulfill your physical desires and justify your actions by gaining some sort of sympathy, that's something else. So sister you know better. Oh and if you love the creator, you love his creation; focus on this first.
Love,
Your brother.
2007-10-28 06:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by diviner2025 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace No its not.. But Adultery is .. Is their any chance of getting married.. or are you a student.. then try to stay away from her with best of your ability.. or try to do ..what you can to keep your love intact.. so that later on you can get married.. BUT Allah SWT says in Quran:- And COME NOT NEAR to UNLAWFUL SEX. Verily, it is a Fahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin), and an evil way (that leads one to Hell unless Allah forgives him). ( سورة الإسراء , Al-Isra, Chapter #17, Verse #32)
2016-04-10 08:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Assalamu'alaikum.
"NO" It's not a sin in loving someone in Islam.
You're prohibited to have any kind of making love which lead to sexual intercourse, that's a great sin.
There's no making love with some which lead to sexual intercourse unless your own wife.
2007-10-27 03:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by AHMAD FUAD Harun 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋