My friends always hate the guys i like but this one ive liked 4 like a few years...... they say hes a jerk but their evidence is shabby and annoying. I think hes nice, well.... hes always nice 2 me but...... my friends get annoyed whenever i talk about him..... wat should i do?
2007-10-26 13:29:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do your friends hate every guy you like?Is it that they are jealous of the guys that like you, or are they trying to protect you because you choose lousy guys, or could one or more of your friends actually want you romantically?I will ask you to go with your own instincts in this one.Since their evidence is annoying and shabby, and he is nice to you, and you obviously like him, go with him.After all , your friends are not the ones going to date him or be with him, and since you don't choose who they should date, they should not choose who you should date.You should not talk to them about him and until you find out something really terrible, nasty, and mean about him , don't worry .Enjoy what you have if he likes you and wants you too.
2007-10-26 14:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of the time because we like someone we don't realize that they like all of us have faults. If you like him and you think he's nice thats fine, but you should consider what your friends are saying cuz they might be right. Wouldn't you rather just hear them out and get them off your back then have them keep bothering you!!
2007-10-26 13:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have to do what makes YOU happy, because it is your life and your friends aren't considering dating the guy, you are... you have to live with the decision, not them...
BUT, I would try to objectively look at why they don't like him. Your friends want what is best for you and they want you to be happy so maybe really consider why they have negative feelings towards him. There has to be a reason.
2007-10-26 13:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by maire123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and tell your friends not to call your guy friend a jerk. Your friends are jealous.
2007-10-26 13:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had the same problem..you cant really help it !! i understand..but until he does something of what your friends were talking about,then thats when your going to change your mind..you still might like him,but it wont be the same. = ]
2007-10-26 13:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by I walk,my walk & Talk,my talk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋