im not experienced guy wise. My crush isnt either, hes never had a girlfriend, we're both 18 in college. Hes never kissed a girl. one night we were a little drunk and we flirted. Nothing else, he did try to touch me alot in subtle ways. Our pals kept tring to make us touch each other, they knew I liked him last year. I didnt think he liked me though, but that night they said I think he does. Does a shy guy use alcohol to make a move or is he the same as every other drunk guy? I randomly left, my crush called and left a message sayin g" i hope u got back to ur room OK ill IM you tomorrow"-he did in the morning and asked me questions about how I was feeling and such (hangover) and he asked me other things to. Hes never done these things before (call and IM). He said Hi to me the next day at practice, I didnt expect anything to happen. My pal who was there that night whose close with my crush said "he said he doesnt have feelings for me. all those people who constantly badgered him about
2007-10-26 13:15:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you afterwards didnt help a huge amount but he wants to be friends" apparently my crush's bff got mad at this guy saying it wasnt his place to tell me that. why would they not want me to know he doesnt like me? Anyway the day I found all this out at our band competition he was standing near me, im ignoring him, trying to move on and i thought he ignored me too but he just randomly walked by and said hi. later that night when i hung out with people he walked into the room said hey everyone and then hey hannah. he always says hi when passing me (but he sometimes did beforehand too when we were just friends and he didnt know) but now I feel so scorned I want to avoid his gaze. my pal who told me that stuff said he was sorry too for meddling. I feel like my friends ruined it for me. time to move on? im trying i wish if he didnt like me back hed leave me alone is he sayin hi because he doesnt want hard feelings? and if he doesnt like me why did he leave me those messages and im me?
2007-10-26 13:15:55 · update #1
its not a rumor my friend did NOT lie to me
2007-10-26 13:23:45 · update #2
I don't know, I got bored half way through ur post
:)
2007-10-26 13:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by screamo4ever12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok, like I said >< I was telling everyone at my school who asked me, "Do you like her?" and I would say, "no" and back in the mind I was so crazy for her! oh god
Ohhhh god! damn me! NUUUU !!!! this guy you're talking about... reminds me... of ME! oh man! geeze I wish I had made the first move.... oh man... ok get this I'm so much worse than ur guy friend in this way--->
I had moved to my new school in 5th grade... and it was love at first sight... oh god! whooo I was in in so high over my head! ok so around my freshman->junior years we kinda had the eye contact and, "Hi" conversations >< oh man ok and then the last year I was at that school(junior year) I decided to ask her out... and get this the next day when she was gunna get back to me to see if she could that weekend(parents permission) she was so excited to see me... and I chickened out.. and looked the other way when we made eye contact in the hall... bah... Now that's a regret I have to live with ;_;
Who knows, maybe in the future we'll meet again ;_; most likely not... but if I ever have the chance... I won't make the same mistake....
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh damn ur story ;_; reminds me of so much pain ;_;
Anyhoo why I posted again was this--> Ask hiim out, make it absolutly clear that you like him(to his face)
He does like you, why else would he say hi to you all the time?
Your bff is great for looking out for you... True friends foreva!
Much luck babe!
2007-10-27 03:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all it means is dont listen to rumours ---- keep talking to the guy and you may be surprised that he actually wants your company and not just as a friend ---- best wishes
2007-10-26 20:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋