So there's this kind of funny, attractive guy in my english class named Dan. I always feel like he's staring at me. I'm very quiet, and he's outgoing. Opposites attract I guess? Anyways, he was bragging to me asking what a 14/14 means, and winked at me and smiled. He always asks me for paper and what not, problem is i'm too shy? How can I heat this up? And is shyness weakness to men?
2007-10-26 13:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I consider shyness an attractive feature, they are the nicest people on the planet.
2007-10-26 13:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is not a weakness.....however, if the shyness is a sign of you having a problem with self esteem, then it's absolutely a weakness. Have confidence and tell this clown to get his own paper!
2007-10-26 13:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by jph_9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, some are attracted to it. It's like a challenge to them, sorta. You know, try and get the shy girl to open up. Not a bad thing. Next time he asks you for something, give it to him, but say something like oh, "How was your weekend?" etc. If he's into you, he'd probably be happy to talk to you. Of course, if he's outgoing, he may just be treating you like everyone else. So, be wary! Just try small talk at first, sorta get used to talking easier with him, ok? Good luck!!
2007-10-26 13:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahah
well at some place
i saw this really cutee guy but he was kinda 19 looking
and i was only 13 :(
anyways i was extremely shy too
and i was staring at him for like the WHOLE day
then like soon we stared at eachother
but i wasnt sure if he liked me or not
cause i was young :'/
and its illegal if i get with him
:( !
shyness can be anyones weakness
2007-10-26 13:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not really a weakness.....some guys actually like that....you not loud so that mean your to yourself most of the time..... and that's good cause that also mean your not messy....but you got to come out of that shyness some part of your life.... most of the time when your shy that means you have a problem with yourself....show people/him how much you love yourself and life....start saying the first thing that pops to your head..... i mean if they ask a question they want the truth right.....stop thinking so much on what you want to say and just say it....how bad is it going to hurt?....
2007-10-26 13:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by J~Babi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like shy girls.. it is said that 2 shy people usually have the best relationships.
2007-10-26 13:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by CJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
Guys like CONFIDENCE.
Always remember..You never have to impress anyone =]
Good luck! ♥
2007-10-26 13:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋