Today is me and my boyfriends one month anniversary and Im hoping that he will take me out to a romantic resteraunt and go to the movies and that he will end the evening with giving me a half dozon orange roses and a kiss
but the thing is...
Two days after we meet His Uncle died and he called me to inform me that he,s really morning over his uncle and he needs time to mourn and he,ll call me when he,s done mourning and in the whole month we,ve been together he,s only called me once and weve spent a grand total of ten minutes together all month
How,s THAT for Boring???
For those of you who are in a relationship...
what did you do on your first month anniversary???
2007-10-26 12:18:45 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is not your boyfriend he is someone you know.
2007-10-26 12:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you think a one-month aniversary is significant (which it really shouldn't be) then you should of course make the night special however you feel you need to. I'm not saying "spend a night at home" or anything close to that but go out somewhere like if you met somewhere special then go there again.
But to be honest it sounds like either this guy is just not interested in you or he was the influence for "Napolean Dynamite". I mean I know he's grieving over his uncle but still if he trusted you and respected you as a friend he would at least go to you for some support in the situation. And he's only called you once and you've only been together for 10 minutes? I wouldn't even consider you boyfriend/girlfriend, it really sounds like this isn't going anywhere.
2007-10-26 12:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by I want my *old* MTV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have worse than that, an incredibly boring husband! He never kisses me goodnight, He didn't even hug me goodbye before he left for work today. We just had our 15yr! wedding anniversary and his idea of a good time was to order pizza and go to SLEEP early, I stress that word because that was all he did that night. I cant tell you the last romantic thing he has done for me, no flowers or card for just because, the problem is he doesn't think like a woman and I hold him up to what I would do in those cases, his brain just doesn't work that way!..Your relationship is new, so best of luck to you but if my husband is any judge they don't get better after marriage, sorry if I am a bummer, I have a cold and I know when I get home from work, he wont have dinner waiting for me. Best of luck to you, hopefully it is just a phase with your guy! =]
2007-10-26 12:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Armour-Plated Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does HE know he's your boyfriend, considering you've spent so little time together during your first month together?
And realistically, guys don't give roses and dinners out for early anniversaries like this... they often don't even realize it's a special day at all. Your expectations may be too high.
Finally, if he's mourning his uncle, you should respect that and give him some space. It sounds like he might not be as into you as you are into him. Sorry.
2007-10-26 12:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Luscious G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One month and you want a romantic restaurant, movies, half dozen orange roses and a kiss... wow...he's probably posting a similar message:
Does anyone out there have as an incredibly demanding and insane girlfriend as I do?
Today is our one month anniversary. I recently lost my uncle and am very hurt. Instead of her being there for me, all she can think is a one month anniversary. She wants me to break the bank after one month. How's that for insane?
You won't last long in this love thing with that attitude!
2007-10-26 12:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You picked a bad time. Seriously...his mind probably isn't in having a steady girlfriend. If you really cared about him, you might want to try to bring a meal to him.
Why don't you have your girlfriends together and go out to the club with them...or for dinner.
I've always done dinner for a one month anniversary. Or at least a movie.
2007-10-26 12:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by miss_j 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is really sad that you have only spent 10 min with him but back to the point. We ordered pizza and watched a movie. Nothing romantic or special just some time together.
2007-10-26 12:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by sarah w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah my boyfriend was pretty boring but he worked two jobs and attended school too. We just went out for dinner for our first month anniversary but if you do that for every anniversary, it gets old so don't rush it. You are being a little hard on your boyfriend though, its hard to lose a loved one. Maybe you should try to talk to him, I mean just because his uncle died doesn't mean he should practically be out of your life
2007-10-26 12:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you were really going out to start with.And why should he have to spend all of his money on you anyhow.You sound to me that you are just one of those gold digging woman out there.He should do this for me,he should do that for me.WAWA!!
Maybe you should buy him dinner and then throw in a mercy bang to try to get him over his mourning for his uncle.Women like you make it hard for nice girls to get dates.Because you men are afraid of those gold-diggers out there.
It is always the same.Buy this for me.Buy that for me.BUY BUY BUY.Not everyone is as rich as you.Grow up!! Guys don't care about one month anniversarys anyhow.That is just stupid.What should he do for 2 months.Buy you a car.
Stop being stupid!
2007-10-26 12:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by jonasruxpin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Should this be the first 10 minutes Anniversary? MOVE ON
2007-10-26 12:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by GIG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is the same way the 17 of this month was our 6 month anniversary he did nothing...just Wait when he gets over it he will probably be more fun
2007-10-26 12:28:11 · answer #11 · answered by calebs_gurly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋