Well, I REALLY like this athletic girl. But she has a boyfriend. And I told her I loved her during the Summer (Through myspace, yeah...call me a loser). She said that she would really like to be my friend though (Because I was practically a stranger). Now that school starts, she never really says hi to me, but she does look at me. She still has her BF and I really like her, what do I do.
2007-10-26 12:12:34 · 15 answers · asked by Ben 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop talking to her and start approaching other women on a courtesy conversation level. Say "hi, I'm Ben and your name is?" Then bring up something about your surroundings "wow, there's a lot of stores in this mall, which one do you think would have an outfit that would best suit me... etc." The conversation should last no more than 5 minutes. After you've exchanged plesantries, tell her "hey, we're going to hang out sometime, now give me a call at noon." Do this with enough girls and you'll be going on 3 dates a week.
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2007-10-26 12:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Glenn Johnson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ben if she's not interested nothing you can do... if you think your a loser then other people prolly will too but i bet your not a loser so dont act like it. if she cant see what you have then get to know some one else. most girls dont give a guy a second look unless he's got a girl or at least had a decent relationship with one so just try to talk with them get to know em if you find one that makes you laugh then go for it admiring girls from a far though that are'nt availbe is pretty much a waste of time....i say if you cant be with the one you love then love the one your with
2007-10-26 12:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by <B> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man just try as much as possible to not think about her. I really liked that one girl too and she didn't even have a boy friend. I tried to tell her many times that I liked her, but i felt like she doesn't have any thing for me. I haven't seen her for almost a year now, and i completely forgot about her, although i thought i would never forget her. so trust me you will forget her even if you think you never will. also you're not a loser because you were brave enough to tell her you loved her.
2007-10-26 13:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Peter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already let her know that you are interested in her. Since she is with her boyfriend not much you can do except be her friend. Maybe things will change in the future but keep living your life and don't wait for her to come around.
2007-10-26 12:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush on someone that was trying to let you down easy. She sounds like she has some class in that area! Look for someone else that might actually like you the way you like them and be content to let the other girl go.
2007-10-26 12:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by JennyP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really shouldnt go 4 taken girls!! just saying the obvious. just walk up to her when she isnt w/her bf and say hey, remember me. hopefully that will start her talking to u so u could be friends. that way if they break up, u will be next in line.
word of advise- dont get too close to her though, if u do it will be very awkward for her to b asked out by u and for u to ask her out!
2007-10-26 12:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by "Sophya Roxy" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude, i have right there in your position, and i know that you feel great about her opening, i love it to, when girls tell me secrets and stuff about like there belifs its sweet a nd you feel like you to are bonding
it just takes time, im about 200 lbs and i have glasses and big bushy brown hair, but believe me when i say i dated the hottest, most popular, blond cheerleader, it just takes time, there are girls out that still have a thing for nice guys, nice guys can still be victorious!
and if she never does notice how decent you are and rejects then she is supid for not looking deeper,
hope it all works out!
2007-10-26 12:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girl WITHOUT a bf. move on and find another.
sorry I know it's been said many times, but I'm sure that's what everyone else is going to say.
2007-10-26 12:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Juice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ugh don't Tell anyone anything important over Myspace.
that's gay.
maybe that's why she doesn't talk to you!
or maybe she was scared that you were moving to fast by telling her you loved her
if she has a boyfriend Move on!
there's plenty of fish in the sea.
and if she and her boyfriend ever break up then talk to her if your not dating anyone.
2007-10-26 12:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by Fishhh! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur not a loser! Thats so sad! Just talk to her and b her frend. Good luck! =D
2007-10-26 12:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋