My mom REFUSES to get ANY dog I suggest. What to do?

Question

My mom finally agreed to get a dog a few weeks ago. Kinda sad considering I'm 17 and not 10 lol.

So we've been researching a lot of dogs. My mom does not want any big dogs, not even medium sized dogs. She wants a Chihuahua b/c they are small and my cousin has a Chihuahua and we play with it a lot so we know what to expect.

But I don't want one. Yeah they are cute, but I want a bigger dog, not too big but just slightly. And a lot of people we know have them.

So I tried to sell my Mom on a beagle. She says they are too big.

So what the hell is there I can get?

I don't want those small, fluffy dogs. I want a dog that gets to like 15-20 lbs I guess.

Please don't feed me your hack BS. I'm not interested in "omg you dont pay the bills you spoilt brat"

All I want to know is what other options are out there. Thx to anyone so far who has made suggestions.

Answer 1

Get whatever type of dog your mother wants. Soon you'll be out of school and heading off to college or starting a life of your own.

Answer 2

Fox Terriers. They weigh around 18lbs. and are considered a big small dog. I have 2 - one loves to fetch the other loves to wrestle. The look great, are extremely smart, and have tons of personality. I'm partial to the smooth fox terriers, but they shed constantly and their coats need to be stripped at least once a week. The wire haired foxies may not shed, but I don't know for sure.

Most terriers are cool dogs - but they can be head strong. Look for the West Highland terriers, or any of the smaller terrier breeds. But keep in mind, terriers aren't labs. They're cocky dogs that need a strong hand at times. I think the smooth fox terrier is a wonderful breed.

Answer 3

you might want to rethink a beagle. they bark a lot ,hard to house break. they are scent hounds so they need to be on a leash or they pick up a scent and there gone. mom would not like any of those things. what about a Schnauzer they are small but very tough dogs that loves there family easy to house break want run off when off the leash.i have had one for most of my life and my kids loved them. one always took him with him places because he said he was a girl getter. girls always stopped him to pet the dog. he got a few phone numbers that way.the only thing is this is an inside dog so if mom is not going to let it stay in then think about another breed.p.s. they weigh about 15 to 20 lbs.

Answer 4

Be happy that you're even having a dog!!!
There are some people who are poor and their parents won't even let them have a goldfish or ANY pet!!
Would you rather have a Chihuahua or a fish?
Your mother knows well, so I suggest you listen to her. Toy dogs such as a chihuahua, live about 16 years. Most big dogs live up to 5-10 years.

Answer 5

Jut because your cousins chihuahua is all great and dandy, doesnt mean the one you buy will be.

You are 17, is it realy fair for you to pick the animal when you will most likely be out of the house soon? Wait until you've moved out and get whatever the hell you want. Providing you can afford it.

Get a lab, labs are the best.

Answer 6

Check out italian greyhounds. Mine is only 12 lb., but he has a good mix of big dog and little dog personality. He likes to cuddle, but he also loves to run and play. The long legs make him a good buddy for jogs, too. He is about knee-height, but really skinny.

Pugs are also great dogs with friendly, funny, and loyal personalities. They are small-ish, but still in the 15-20 lb. range.

Answer 7

A dachshund is a good dog, they come in miniature and regular. A mini is under 11lbs. A regular can get up to 25.

If your mom is not willing to compromise then just wait a little longer until you move out since your 17, that way you can get what you want.

Answer 8

If your mom is getting a dog and she's paying for the dog then by all means let her pick the kind of dog that she wants since she'll probably be the one taking care of it most of the time and paying vet expenses etc... I'm not a big fan of toy breeds myself. They can have many health problems since they are grossly overbred.. However, this happens with many dogs, not just toy breeds. I would let her get the dog that she wants and be supportive and help as much as you can.. Good luck

Answer 9

Ask yourself this: Who's dog will it be? Will YOU be footing all the bills for it? Doubtful in the extreme. You are 17, will the dog be for you to take with you when you leave home? Not if you're heading off to college away from home. Not if you're looking to get an apartment of your own, pets aren't always allowed, and pet-deposits can be downright usorious. Face it, it isn't going to BE "Your" dog. Sad to say, but your mom is probably going to get a dog that SHE likes, and THAT sounds like one of those Dam*ed Chihuahuas. (I despise them myself, so I feel your pain.) There's not a dippety-dam*ed thing you can do about this, your best option is to just drop the subject entirely, maybe she'll forget it and won't get the freaking barking taco-meat at all.

Answer 10

Sounds like you need to find a compromise. :)

Below are a few dog breeds that might suit both of you. Since you appear to be first time dog-owners, I've picked some breeds that aren't too difficult to deal with, although the terriers can be stubborn and a bit yappy. Also, although I'm a working dog breed girl myself, I've tried to find some breeds that have that "cuteness" factor, which I have a feeling your mom might be looking for.

Listed by weight (heaviest dog first):
West Highland White Terrier http://animal.discovery.com/breedselector/dogprofile.do?id=2110

Cavalier King Charles Spaniel
http://animal.discovery.com/breedselector/dogprofile.do?id=2150

Tibetan Spaniel
http://animal.discovery.com/breedselector/dogprofile.do?id=1590

Schipperke
http://animal.discovery.com/breedselector/dogprofile.do?id=1570

Cairn Terrier
http://animal.discovery.com/breedselector/dogprofile.do?id=1920

Havanese
http://animal.discovery.com/breedselector/dogprofile.do?id=2190

Norwich Terrier
http://animal.discovery.com/breedselector/dogprofile.do?id=2030

Best of luck with your new puppy!