2007-10-26 06:42:54 · 45 answers · asked by Ally S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. But sometimes it's not always possible. In which case they will be with you first chance they get.
2007-10-26 06:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question to answer. Here's why: Lots of guys and girls love each other, but they don't spend every last minute of free time they have together. That's NOT a bad thing. Guys should have "guys' night out" every once in a while, and girls should have "girls' night out" every once in a while too. There's also no point in dragging your significant other to see or do something you want to do but he/she doesn't. People who expect their significant others to spend all their free time with them are selfish and controlling, and that's bad. Here's another example: It's possible for two people to really care about each other, but they're not together because of life circumstances or choices, like if a guy in the Navy loves his girlfriend and she loves him, but they can't be together because he's on a ship for six months at a time. He can't exactly give up his job whenever he wants, can he? So I guess the best answer I can give is NOT EXACTLY. If two people love each other they will respect each other and try to get the most out of the time they have together, and they won't make being with other people like friends or family a priority over their significant other, but that doesn't mean they're constantly "joined at the hip."
2007-10-26 06:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, in fact most people won't. They will try for a while, but if you show no signs of interest most people will give up after a time.
Which is actually the most respectful thing to do because they see that they do not have a chance with you and they move on.
Also, there are other people who are too shy, or they don't think they will be right for you or a host of other factors that will make them not to try to ask you out.
2007-10-26 06:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Quest4questions 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the "no matter what" part is, i've been in a long term relationship for a while and that is true in some cases, i know he would do naything for me..but sometimes things just can't be done and in order for a relationship to truely work out, you need to have some leway on some things, you can't expect the unexpected.
2007-10-26 06:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At One time I would Have said YES .... but Through experience.. I met a woman..and Bingo !!! we fell in LOVE !!! she was making trips to Ohio pretty frequently .. she got to the point she wanted me to meet her sister... so we visited her sister.. I never felt so unwelcome... soon her sister told her she should forget me cause this would cause trouble.. I'm not going any farther in depth.. but She came to me and explained what her sister wanted her to do... and said it was Over.... She is so depressed for almost 3yrs now that all she does is sleep ... in bed by 7:00 and basically the most unhappy depressed person I ever knew .. to the point where she does every thing in her power to avoid seeing or talking to me ... but She wont give in.. so even if he, or she LOVES YOU... I guess fear Rules...Not with Me but I see it happen all the time ... Good Luck... I hope this helps .. I know How I feel... Threes no turning back for me ...
2007-10-26 07:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by frank26694 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Care in what sense? All the time? No. You need to realize the no matter what includes working situations, family (who they also care about), and the other way around.
2007-10-26 06:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by TopPotts 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to think so. But i don't know anymore. Maybe. I mean, people can care about u, and also enjoy thier freedom w/o u. i mean, absence does make the heart grow fonder. Plus, what if the only reason u want to be near them is because they're there....like, if u don't want to be where they're at, but u want to be with them? IF so, maybe they don't want u unhappy because they know they're the only reason ur there...especially if they know they can't be with u as much as u'd like. I'm not sure, but this is a good point to ponder.
2007-10-26 06:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a certain line not to cross. After trying to hard to be with someone and let down so many times I am sure it wears on someone. But if they have not tried at all and supposidly care so much than they most likely don't. You dont want to look to desperate though.
2007-10-26 06:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sadbrowneyes13 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope.
For instance, I care about my family. While I was in the military, however, I was subject to deployments. Should I have gone AWOL when sent overseas, just to be with them no matter what?
Love involves more than "no matter what." It involves, oh, I don't know...understanding that the world has its demands, and that life has other obligations that may just supersede your desires.
2007-10-26 06:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You sound a little immature and very young. Normally, adults are busy with work and kids and grocery shopping etc. So many times couples only get to be with one another when they are sharing these chores. Young people should be working and going to school and in sports and other activities. It sounds as though you really don't have a life other then this person, and this person has other things to do.
2007-10-26 06:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by kathy s 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Every reasonable effort. At some point they may realize theres nothing to be done, that it simply cant be. but more or less, yes.
2007-10-26 06:46:13 · answer #11 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋