Ok, so on our first date, we went to a wine bar and then a trendy bar we both love. She's 29 and I'm 24. 4+ hours of great conversation, a pretty heavy makeout session, and a few "I had a great time" talks. Plus she told me she saved my voicemail that I asked her on the date with. She told me I will get a second date, but I have to ask her for it. What is my next move? We went out last night.
2007-10-26 05:47:56 · 8 answers · asked by The Pilot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your next move would be to call her and ask her out. She already said "yes".
What type of relationship are you looking for? What is she looking for?
If your both hoping for a long term relationship, then you shouldn't worry to much about impressing her on the second date. It's time to find out if your both comfortable being around each other when your just being yourselves. If you not, and you always have to come up with something to top your last date, then the relationship isn't going to work out, and you should move on.
Think about your 4 hour conversation and find something that you both agreed you enjoy and plan your date around that activity. Rather than try to equal or top your last date, make it simpler.
I always find success with a nice dinner and the a semi-long walk around and interesting part of town. It provides a lot of opportunity for holding hands and talking. Then afterwards you can invite her to your place for coffee or wine.
2007-10-26 06:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by timniet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is rare I can say this to the askers here: Well done! A wine bar, that's a good one. I'll have to add that to my list of first date ideas.
As for your second date, you showed her your classy side, now show her your fun side. Something to make you both laugh at the absurdity of it. Something like a line dancing club or karaoke. Alternatively, if you're still looking at being classy, but fun, a comedy club is a great time.
2007-10-26 05:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Takfam 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-27 22:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by pellish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, ask her out on the 2nd date (why isn't that obvious to you?)
Have you not been in a relationship before? Go out on some dates, establish compatibility, then decide if the two of you want to be exclusive or not...
Good luck!
2007-10-26 05:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan to do something during the day without all the alcohol so you can see if you two really like each other. Sometimes it can alter ones judgment. I don't know where you live, but you might check your local guides and see if there is anything interesting going on like a car show or play.
2007-10-26 05:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Redbutter 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
wait a day or two and then ask her on the second date
2007-10-26 05:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your plans for the second date, call and ask her, clean your apartment ( especially the bathroom)...
2007-10-26 05:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man just do what you did on the first date but dont try topush to hard to make her happy
2007-10-26 05:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by kelz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋