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I was at a bar last night and started talking with this very attractive older woman. Not much older than myself. Anyways, I ended up meeting a couple of guys that was friends with her and we were having a good time, shooting the breeze and whatnot. I made a sarcastic remark about the game we were watching and I guess she didn't get my dry sense of humor so he kind of rolled his eyes and she looked funny.....
Then a few minutes later they left and she pulled him away and just said "BYE" without blinking an eye and the guy looked back at me like "I'll be right back". I wanted to get going because I didn't want to get home too late, so I left........since i left I said bye to him and then, because it really bothered me because it made me feel another woman was treating me rudely after I was nice to her
I said "Thanks for inviting me". Then she goes "Oh, you're welcome."
I don't think she got it. You think she knew I picked up on that she didn't want me
2007-10-26 05:34:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Actually...I was being sarcastic",
then her face kind of dropped and the guy I was hanging with was kind of taken aback and I said
"I don't mean to sound like an a*shole, but I thought you were being rude"
and then he said "well you are" (do you think it was because he was going home with her rather than the fact he cared about how i felt?)
Meanwhile, he friend before that owned the place and I asked him about this souvenir thing which were 5 bucks a piece and he checked out his buddy to see if he has them.....and when he did he asked "Would you like to give me 20...just in case they cost more?"
Then he wanted me to do a favor for him....
Was I being used or treated like crap?
After I said what I said to them, btw I said "I still stand by what I said" and I left.....
then I felt guilty. Was I being assertive, I wanted to let it roll off my back but I lack that.
I have a hard time with that....
and immediately she looked concerned and said "Im not like that"
2007-10-26 05:35:41 · update #1
Is there any of you ladies out there anymore that aren't full of ****?
The reason im touchy about it? Because I have a pulse #1, which means im inclined to stand up for myself if someone blows me off for no reason....
Why was I judged?
2007-10-26 05:36:28 · update #2
Teresa the Great?
More like Teresa the Judgemental Whore.
Sorry, but if you lowblow me like that, you'll get it back twofold.
I wasn't drunk and doing anything wrong.
You have know right labeling me and no one asked you to answer my question.
If you're going to be such a *****, go spooge two points off someone else.
You're not great, you're patronizing and hardened up over your past bfs who treated you like garbage.
2007-10-26 05:46:55 · update #3
cas,
I'll compare this "person" to all women because you all think you are so slick because you have had past bfs treat you like crap you can throw good people under the bus.
While im no saint, I am NOT an asshole and deserve better.
And cas, teresathegreat is a sad woman who I hope finally meets Ms. Right someday.
Maybe that'll straighten her out.
I don't owe her or you any explanation.
I know im a good guy. I don't need that c*nt telling me any different....
2007-10-26 05:55:57 · update #4
Sorry girls but this woman was a rich slut she was thinking she was all that and walked all over this guy. Hey this on e was not for you I hate girls like that I'm a girl and I don't act like that. but most are trying to gain there self confidence because there past boyfriends walked all over them so now there standing up for there selves in the wrong way. Hope it helps =)
2007-10-26 05:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You asked this question yesterday and everybody told you that you're a bum, then today you ask it again and everybody knows you are pathetic.
Lay off Teresa the Great, she had it all correct and told it to you straight. Take your medicine from Teresa and be quiet about it. What you wrote about her was uncalled for and is only proof that you are clueless with woman, have mental issues, and are an ineffectual nothing. Look at what you wrote about Teresa, that should be a clue as to why the older lady blew you off.
Teresa the Great rocks!!
2007-10-26 07:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by CmP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how your title question has anything to do with what happened.
This woman obviously didn't enjoy your company or your humor, and was polite enough to simply humor you until she could leave. Your sarcasm and offense at her departure were completely unnecessary, and her male friends were totally justified in calling your bad behavior to your attention.
To be brutally honest, you need to cut back on whatever it is you're drinking/smoking, and start paying more attention to whether or not people actually want you around. Just because people behave politely towards doesn't mean they are having a good time or that they enjoy you.
2007-10-26 05:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow I have seen shorter letter to the court involving victims of crime...and this just does not seem like a big deal until you add alcohol and some man cock blocking another...it is not the woman...sir...but maybe in trying to find a place to lay blame...she, being an older woman, is the perfect target...get a life...
2007-10-26 05:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by Patti_Ja 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the place are you? This sounds so exciting. can i be a style of husbands? you may not in all risk be "too old". in basic terms like adult adult males are all think to have ED whilst they recover from 40? BULL CRAP! One isn't too old to be happy. in certainty in the journey that your no longer looking after your desires atleast thrice a week, some thing might in basic terms be incorrect. ANd the theory that individuals like my parents who're of their 70's is think to close off? He and my mom chuckle at that concept. i admire your strategies. you in basic terms might desire to discover the right guy(s). We do nevertheless exist.
2016-10-14 02:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by mcclune 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haave just a little suspician that the real trouble was a little too much of the social liquid
2007-10-26 05:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Scouse 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were having a bad hair day. unfortunately, most people aren't a custom to dry humor and get offend by it. Chalk it up.
2007-10-26 05:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by just Reese 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not wrong to stand up for ur self but u have to watch what u say cause some girls can be touchy or Moody.
2007-10-26 05:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by nick.j.'s_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is either Spain or 487.
2007-10-26 05:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Samurai Jack 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is like the 4th time you've asked this question. Why?
2007-10-26 05:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋