2007-10-26 05:24:59 · 22 answers · asked by keep similing 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both!
2007-10-26 05:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by New Nana 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Each and every woman in this world wants first the security and then love and caring from the partners. I do not say this . Many Psychologist say this and after they do so much research . Still they are analysing about woman and they will come out with answers , but the so called woman folks will not accept this as usual. But what men are expecting is different question,which we will discuss later.Yours,
VRVRAO
2007-10-26 12:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both... but they learn to accept that the sex won't always be the steamy hot kind when you first hook up... eventually it will evolve into something more loving and just different (can still be hot). So that makes us think about the security more... it is nice to know that you have a spouse to support you in all your decisions and someone behind you when you stumble. I am NOT talking financially... although that is an added bonus if you have it!!
2007-10-26 12:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by crissygirly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a girl id have to say i would prefer security knowng hes got my back and were gonna be financially ok i like to know were here for each other in the ups and downs sex only last a couple of mins but security goes on a life time
2007-10-26 12:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by LilMissYady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the woman is a good woman she wants security in a man because she wants her man to feel confident but also to know he will protect her. A lot of women want their men to feel secure with them and their self
2007-10-26 12:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending upon the situation. However, in most cases it is security. Not necessarily financial security, but social and emotional security. Especially if they have children together.
2007-10-26 12:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I date in general and am not one to sleep around, i usually have one and only one I sleep with whom i'm physically attracted to but i'm not asking anything from him, the others i go out with and have a good time because socially they are fun.
If the one guy came along that I knew I wanted to love then I would want both. Every circumstance is different. Obviously for me I haven't come across that one guy yet.
2007-10-26 12:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by BGIL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason that theu shouldn't be able to get both. Sex and security are both a factor when have a boyfriend.
2007-10-26 13:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by jasmine.smith60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most unfortunately just want a good time..thats the bad boy syndrome...........they keep dating the ""bad Boy "" so they can have an excuse to move on..in my opinion...give them a nice Wholesome guy who will be a security and has matured past the sowing of oates as it were....and they wont have him....but the guy who will treat them like trash...that is the one they will be with...........always with the excuse i can change him when they know they cant and dont really want to.......so yeah its all for the sex mostly.............Then they wonder why....the cycle never ends.............and then what is thier answer........men are the problem !!! ......when in most cases its the women.....doing the acts......and they all say they want an honest and open and caring man.....and when he arrives........what happens........his honesty is turned to judgemental...his openess to be a jerk.....and his caring to clinging...............THEN..back to the so called " bad boy " again syndrome.............instead of just simply saying........i just want sex.........and thats all......for a time with you..and i will move on.......but then they would equate to a word they say thier not.....wouldnt it ?
2007-10-26 12:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
security while having sex
2007-10-26 12:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Security and then Love, then making love...not just sex!
2007-10-26 12:29:26 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋