she is so bossy and she hates me.
2007-10-26 03:01:59 · 6 answers · asked by Justine:] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When I was younger, I was so mean to my sister, I'm sure she hated me and now we are bestest friends. It is only normal for siblings to not get along. I now have children of my own and sometimes the fighting is just horrid. One say the other thinks she's better than me and so on, it's frustrating. It's not that we hate our sibling, we do love them, but just can't get along. Maybe go to your parents and tell them how your feeling about this and you guys can have a family meeting and talk it all out. Write your sister a letter and tell her how you feel, but don't do it in an immature way and in a way to get at her or make her angry, that's only starting another fight. Tell her in a nice way that you wish she would quite being so bossy and tell her you feel like she hates you and you wish you both could just love each other and get along. One day you may really need each other when your all grown up and you will look back and think how stupid this all was. Good luck.
2007-10-26 03:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Perkymo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't hate say you hate your sister...i don't know what ages you guys are butwhen my sister and i was younger we hated each other also i think its just something we go threw in life but try talking and see does that help or if does not then the two of you need to talk to a counsel or get into a hobbie you both enjoy spend some time together and work it out from there
2007-10-26 10:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is such a strong word and when you hate somebody it takes up so much of your energy that you become a hateful person who doesn't enjoy life too much...
It could be just that yourself and your sister have conflicting personalities but i'm sure there must be something that you would have in common to talk about without turning into an all out war!!!
In the end, family is family.. Love them or hate them, family is what counts:)
2007-10-26 10:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see this is very sensitive manner u have to analyze in best possible way.
1.firstly we will stop respecting the ones who live very close to us means like your sister ,mother,brother
2.u find another male as very sexiest and he attracts you very much in matter of love ,careing nature whatever(u and the boy are known for just few months)
3.but u dont find the caring nature of your brotherand also your brother appears attractive to another lady(your brother and lady are each other for few months)
4.i think u have understood my sentence
5.these is to analyze your relationship with your sister.
6.lastly solution for your problem is see your sister as a new a newly admitted girl to your class means try to find what is the quality of your sisiter what she likes how she behaves and what makes her happy like this i know this itself is a problem but problem is a problem is a problem if see it as a problem .make the things which attract your sister and try to see your sister as a friendand respect her
i am expecting your reply if this doesnt work iwill suggest one more but i suppose it doesnt work for 80-90 percent
2007-10-26 10:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by king l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't explain the situation, but siblings don't always get along.. just because we are sisters, doesn't mean we are kind to each other.
2007-10-26 10:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate my sister as well. I have not spoken to her in 9months.
2007-10-26 10:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋