i have been looking for a psychic for so long i hope someone can help me answer the questions i am looking for without a cost.
i am having many troubles in life. i have been trying to lose weight for two years. last year i went through anorexia and lost 50 or more pounds. i still have this urge to lose alot of weight even though i may not need it but i feel i need to get prettier... however i find it impossible when my mom is buying junk food and i am bingeing on in every once a week. will i ever stop bingeing? will i lose the weight? also, there is a guy at school that i really like. i dont know if he likes me though, does he like me? what does he think of me? when will he ask me out if he does?
and will anything surprising happenin the next few days. something nobody knows about?
will my family problems ever end?
if this is too much please tell me to im you, i will be more than happy to.
thanks!
2007-10-26 02:28:50 · 13 answers · asked by graciepooh1722 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
a therapist will be of great help to you. learn to have confidence in yourself and love yourself before you get into any relationship. you will never be happy until you do.
2007-10-26 02:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by plastik punk -Bottom Contributor 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am not a psychic but I can help you.
You will only stop binging when you muster enough will power to stop. Try asking your mom to buy you some carrot sticks and celery. Also try just taking a small portion of the junk food. 1 hand full of chips, eat them slowly savoring every bite. you wont have time to eat the whole bag. Also try exercising. When I was younger I ran up and down the steps every night about 20 times. Not to be conceited but when I was out in my short shorts, I could stop traffic.
Now this guy. Try flirting with him. talking to him, be his friend. Ask him out, don't wait for him to ask you.
Something sup rising happens every day. You have to look for it.
Family problems will never end. Families always have problems. All of them do. Any family that looks "normal" is just better at hiding it.
You will only be happy if you make an effort to become happy. Try thinking of the positives inside the negatives. Every dark cloud has a silver lining. Once you find that lining you will learn how to be happy.
2007-10-26 10:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mable VT is thinking, kinda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont need to be a psychic to tell you what to do here, but i guess it helps.
get over yourself. youre not the most important person in the world. if you look pretty, great, if not, then oh well, im sure you have other redeeming qualities. To place that much weight (pardon the pun) on your apperance is unhealthy and will lead to a life time of false hope and falling short of your expectations.
as for the guy, if you like him, pin him to the lockers and rev him up. otherwise dont waste your time. do or do not, there is no try.
something suprizing will happen to you today... in the next hour. in fact it could be right now as you are reading this!
family problems never end. its how you deal with them which is the only thing that can change.
the only thing in common with your dreams, your desires and your current reality is YOU. pull in the good vibes and project the peace. you are what you feel and what you project to others. if you want to be great then feel great and project greatness! end of story
2007-10-26 09:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by nacsez 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I see a very depressed young woman who has a very low self-esteem. You cause most of your own troubles, my dear.
My advice to you would be to stop worrying about what other people think about you. The only opinion that is important is your own. You must learn to find your happiness in yourself, first, before you go looking for someone else to make you happy.
Forget the guy, he isn't worth your precious time. There is a wonderful man in your future who will make this guy look like the clown he is...be patient and wait for him.
All of life is a surprise.
Every family has problems, child. That is just the way life is. Sometimes they seem insurmountable, but they really aren't. Be strong enough to face your problems and deal with them.
The biggest problem in your family is that nobody wants to take that responsibility. Lead by example.
And...nothing in life is free, Hun. There is always a price-tag.
2007-10-26 09:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
the questions you are asking can only be answered deep with in your self these things you are seeking answers to are reliant on your on self confidence and will power . You are at a cross roads In your life and the path you choose is up to you . nothing is written in stone and do not let any one tell you other wise.
here are some prophetic words for you.
Chose your path no matter where you it takes you as you may change it at any time , Be strong and don't give up on your self , things are going to get tough for you but you can over come any obstacle that comes your way do what you must to make your dreams a reality the power is in you.
Most of all "BE STRONG"
2007-10-26 09:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
life is a series of choices plans and opportunities... we are all going through hard times today... each of us battling demons of the past... each of us have a responsibility to take care of ourselves... what happens tomorrow always depends on the decisions you make today .. so make wise choices... when it comes to familly.. our older generations have a habit of giving into the "peer pressure" of their generation... If you find a mate in a period of low self esteem.. a period where you keep feeling you have to change to be love that will begin a life long habit... first learn to accept yourself... that way you will accept only those who accept yourself... it's not the easiest path.. but as we get older that self expectation to keep trying to acheive the impossible gets much harder... accepting yourself makes others accept you as you are... learning this at a young age helps to avoid heart aches when you are older... I know growing up is hard.. but being yourself is worth it... my weight fluxuates so I can be as heavy as 250 lbs or as small as 180... I have what I call very bad face days.. I can't stand looking in the mirror.. it's part of who I am.. I'm 56... and I have a very very good looking boyfriend.. he's in his 30's... so don't go around being so hard on yourself... because what you choose today as the philosophy to live by.. will determine how good your life will be tomorrow... when you get older.. self confidence will go farther than a prety face..
2007-10-26 09:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Gyspy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best way to get over yourself is to shift your focus on to something else and something worthwhile like helping others, getting involved in a new and productive activity. Go sign up to volunteer somewhere. When you see how some people really have it bad, you will be thankful for what you do have and hopefully compassion (active) for those that do not. Life is never perfect, we are only deceived into thinking it will someday be.
2007-10-26 09:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by joe 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You will stop binging, when you stop putting the food in your mouth.
You will lose weight, when you stop eating so much and start exercising.
As for the guy, He doesn't like you. You are a weird person who asks for impossible advice on-line instead of dealing with your own problems head on. You blaim everyone else for your own problems and need to grow up and stop asking questions like these on -line looking for easy answers.
Penn State will beat Ohio State Saturday night, talk about a surprise.
Family problems will never end....that's why they are your family.
2007-10-26 09:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by itsme6922 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Why do u need a phychic to help u loose weight? Sorry i am one nosey person so i just had to answer this. Also i dont think that anyone who did have these kinds of talents would help u for free. u seem desperate to loose weight but this is not the route u want to take, its just false hope
2007-10-26 09:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by MakeAmyUp! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not trying to be obnoxious, but psychics are charlatans and at best serve as someone to tell you what you already know. If you need help, a councilor or several good/wise friends would be more use, not to mention realizing that you are in charge and responsible for your actions.
2007-10-26 09:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋