i have this guy friend that i met through my younger sister and we instantly clicked as friends. he is sooo fun to hang out with and i really like him. things got to the point where we are really great friends now. he tells me personal things and asks my advice and vice/verse. over the past month or so, our conversations have turned from strictly friendly to pretty flirty. he told me a while ago that he is planning to move out of state in december and he asked me if i wanted to go with him. i said i would love to. then, we didn't really discuss it again. last week, he wrote to me and said:
I will buy you a garden, where your flowers can bloom.
I will buy you a new car, perfect shiny and new,
I will buy you that big house,
Way up in the west hills,
I will buy you a new life
Still want to come with me???
The words are from 'our song' by everclear. I said yes I still want to go!! CONTINUED IN ADDED DETAILS
2007-10-26 00:11:16 · 6 answers · asked by love of your life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That day he deleted his myspace account so i can't write to him anymore. He hasn't called me and when I call him, I get vcmail. Why would he ask me to move out of state with him twice, then avoid me? This is strange to me. Do you think maybe he likes me for more than a friend and is avoiding me because he knows I don't like him that way? If so, why ask me to move with him again? I don't get it. I didn't bring it up and actually took it as kind of a joke when he first mentioned it. But, I knew he was serious when he asked me a second time. I do want to move with him because I think it would be great.......but if he doesn't want me to go for real, he knows it wouldn't hurt me if he told me the truth. i don't get it!
2 minutes ago
Oh, I am 29 yrs old. My parents don't care what I do. I'm an adult
2007-10-26 00:11:59 · update #1
us guys become real scared when it comes to great big commitment, you do realize that he's just asked you a very large question, he's asked you to give up your way of life to leave your comfort zone, so from a guys perspective hes' probably asking himself "what have i asked her to do,? is she serious? will i be able to take care of her? give him some time to sort things out in his head, because right now he's probably trying to take in the fact that you said yes to his offer
and i don't think he was expecting that.
2007-10-26 00:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by anthony b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is this guy ? and he must really love you to ask you again. find out through your sister, where he live so you can talk to him about this.
2007-10-26 07:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by (Persepolis) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might playing u and ur feelings, he will avoid u and find someone else and ask the same thing to them
2007-10-26 07:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by sasamijurai18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him! we can give you our opinions but theyre all going to differ so your gonna end up back at square one. you need to hear from him what he wants.
2007-10-26 07:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by sarahryan86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds messed up in the head, you don't need him.
2007-10-26 07:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by skibm80 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy sucks, why would he do that.
2007-10-26 07:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋