I have friends. But not the one where they treat you very nicely and u can tell them all you're problems and you know they'll be there for you. no one calls me. my daddy loves me, my mom doesnt(she told me and we have a love and hate relationship)
i have no relatives near me. i i live in a world of my own.
i threw up and my mom got mad at me because i ruined her carpet. i didnt get enough time to run to the bathroom. :(
what should i do?
i hate school. a guy tormets me(makes fun of me.)
2007-10-25 19:01:29 · 12 answers · asked by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be very careful what you wish for -- you may just get it. Don't let yourself be stressed over the way others treat you, & don't let them drag you down to their level. Just know in your heart that you're better than that. Keep looking for better friends.
2007-10-25 23:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor child. Too bad if you puked on the carpet. Just get rug cleaner . My kids used to puke all the time and on things like carpets, sofa's chairs, even me...eww. It happens and with the invention of a steam cleaner it fixed the problem. As for the guy that torments you and makes fun of you in school. Go to a principal or councellor and report the sorry jerk. I was made fun in school and it's dreadful. I hated school because of it. I would cry and hide in the bathroom and throw up. When I told someone things got better. Is there a club at school you could join where you could meet new people and make new friends? This is what I did. I was the un popular geeky kid that was made fun of. So I joined the book club where I met other un popular geeky kids. Made some really great friends that are still my friends to this day. Your mom saying that you "Have a love hate relationship" That's really sad. Cause I'm a Mom with two daughters and I love them to pieces. I'm sure your Mom loves you lots. Talk to her and tell her how un happy you are with school and the jerk that is tormenting you. Just simply come out and say to your mom I need your advice on something? Asking your Mom for advice might clear up the troubles between you two. I wish you luck sweety and I hope all works out for you.
2007-10-26 02:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit it girl. You must be going through that teenager thing. I know that some days are just grueling. High school kids do not know what real friendship is anyway. Wait until you are older. You will laugh at what you call a friendship now.
You mom said that you had a "Love/hate relationship" That means that she loves you, but sometimes hates the things that you do or say. That is normal for teenagers and their mothers. That too will pass.
Your mother was probably thinking of the financial burden of replacing the carpet. Even parents make stupid mistakes sometimes. They are only human too!
Guys that torment you usually are just trying to get your attention. The secretly like you in most cases. Just tell him to grow up.
Make a list of the good things about you, and the bad things about you. One by one (not all at one time, it is too hard) improve the good things, and eliminate the bad things. Your future will be much better if you get your attitude and personality on the right track while you are still young.
The best is yet to come, I promise!!!
Been there, done that!!!
2007-10-26 02:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl, be careful what you wish for because you just might get it, and other than looking for attention, I do not believe cancer is what you want. This all happened today, tomorrow will be a different day and different feelings. You don't say how old you are but in my house, if you can walk, run and have an opinion, when you throw up, you make it to the bathroom and if you don't and you throw up on my carpet, oh yes, it will be on. Your Mother doesn't hate you that is what you are putting on her because this is the sick, twisted thought that you have in your mind. Now as to the friends, get new ones. But in due time, when you grow up some more, you will understand. God Bless.
2007-10-26 04:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you are going through, I had it just the same as you. First of all with your mom situation, I wish I would have done this when I was your age, anyway what I would do is approach her and say something like Mom maybe we can sit down and talk about our differences and see what we can do to change the way that we act towards each other. Now after you say that to her you may shock the hell out of her, and do not expect any response off the bat, but say let me know mom when you are ready and I will be ready. Even though your mom gets mad at you and she may say mean things it does not mean that she does not love you. She does, she may be having some issues of her own, that she does not need to take out on you, but I think that if you say what I have stated above it may open her eyes. Also, if she questions why you want to have a talk with her maybe say because we can help each other out with our situations. I am by no means a dr I am just giving advice for what has worked with me and my mom. Now with the problem with your friends that are not so much your friends, I would tell them how you feel, and if they react by making fun of you, then know this they are immature, and they are not worth it. There tons of people that are out there that would kiss the ground that you walk on and be a true friend. I applaud you for reaching out for advice, continue to talk about how you are feeling and you will get through this difficult time in your life I promise. As to the boy, I think that he may like you and is afraid to show it because he is a boy and is immature as well. I would just ignore him as much as possible and act like it is not a big deal. But if he is hurting you that much you need to go to a counselor at school or maybe talk to someone from your church. There are tons of programs for teens with problems with bullies at school. Google how to deal with a bully, or how to deal with bullies of the opposite sex, and also google how to handle your issues with your friends, and your parents as well. I hope that this helps and I am sorry that this is long, but I just want you to know this. You are a great person and are important don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. You can always contact me anytime on here I will answer as quickly as possible.
Good luck!!
2007-10-26 02:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by kstufflebean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure you are a beautiful girl. Guys sometimes make fun of us or tease us, because they are afraid to tell us they like us. Most of the time people are afraid of the things they dont understand. Im not sure how old you are, but Im more than sure your mother loves you. Girls are daddy's little girls, that is why your dad seems to love you more. It was hard for me and my mom to get along while growing up and I felt the same way, but now that I am older, we are the best of friends. Dont worry about others, just do things to make you happy or look pretty. God is your friend and if he has to be your only friend, then talk to him. I will even chat with you. Go places and meet new people to find new friends or meet new friends at school. Dont go out and try to make friends with a bunch of guys and get a rep, but just be you. If people dont like you for you, then it is their loss.
2007-10-26 02:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nicety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you even wish that on yourself or your family, being the mother of a child with Cancer I find that horrifying not to mention stupid, do you even care if you live or die because believe me yeah you might get the attention but you might not live long enough to enjoy it.
You want to go through the pain of chemo, all those drugs being pumped into your body making your hair fall out and constant sickness and there just the harmless side effects, all those needles and radiotherapy the pain you would go through, don't ever make light of having Cancer because it is anything but.
I don't mean to be so harsh but you made my blood boil saying that.
2007-10-26 05:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off don't let that guy bother you... the one from school. you are who you are and if he don't like it. f@ck him. He's just another dumbass punk who's going to end up workn for McDonalds when he's older anyhow. so don't waste your time hatin school cuz of him. trust me there are so many other reasons to hate it. It's 12 years of what/?? then you go to college to get a degree just to loose all of it anyhow cuz you get some stupid illness. been there done that.
it sounds like you and i have similar home lives. i love my dad but i hated my mom. I've learned to stop hating her thou. i'm 35 now and i just don't talk to her. she's always been the one to put me down and make me feel like nothing. she once told me i'd never be anything but a druged up alcholic whore. fooled her i don't drink. haha.
as much as this sucks you've gotta deal with her till your 18 i got lucky my parents threw me away when i was 13 so i got out early but it was hard and i've had a rough life so try to bite your tongue and if you ever wanna talk you can email me. ok...
2007-10-26 04:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by It's me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Ana,It is so sad that no one likes u or no one loves u.stop thinking that u r lonely,start thinking positively and try 2 mingle up with ur friends or neighbours always put up a smile on ur beautiful face and never get moody.start helping mom at house and win her affection.Coming to the boy at ur school tell him that u don't like being teased if he doesn't pay heed to ur words then start teasing him and make him feel shame .So bye Ana and have a nice time and AND BEST WISHES 2 U .
2007-10-26 02:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by sai k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are over reacting...
u said u have friends and if u have problems they will be there for you... u also said ur dad loves u...
well, not all people have a lot of friends and not all people are blessed with a perfect family or a perfect mother just like in your case...
just be thankful of the things you have... through that you'll realize that you are not unloved like what you think... satisfaction is the key to happiness...
you are blessed remember that...
2007-10-26 02:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by nashey54 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋