i hate that! this guy does it all the time just because i slept with my ex doesnt make me a s**t(after we broke up also the only guy ive been with) just because i slept with him doesnt mean im going to cheat on a guy(i dont even know what the two have to do with each other) just because people have been telling him things doesnt make them true. i dont even know these people and they dont know me so how can they judge me?
2007-10-25 15:00:24 · 8 answers · asked by lalcutiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, your question doesn't say how old you are, but if you're pretty young and other girls your age aren't having sex then that's probably why he thinks that you're a $lut. If he hasn't had sex yet then he may be worried that you'll be more interested in a guy who is more experienced. The worries about you cheating just stem from his own insecurities.
Talk to him about why he feels the way that he does & try to reassure him that his fears are unfounded. If that doesn't help matters then you may need to just walk away from him. Don't let him degrade you just because he''s insecure.
2007-10-25 15:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's easier than finding out what a person is about. Sometimes it's to feel superior becuase they're jealous. I'd just ignore it. Not worth the waste of time. In a week or so, they'll have another target and shortly afterwards, they'll probably forget about this. They seem awfully shallow.
2007-10-25 22:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by SpikE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One time when I felt like I was being judged and gossiped about, someone ask me if I would rather be the topic of conversation once in awhile, or would I rather be one of those people that no one even thinks about until they see them. I don't want to be forgetable.
2007-10-25 22:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are probably spreading those things about you because they're envious. Just ignore them, they'll go away. And you can't control what people say about you. Anyone who believes them without asking you if they're true or judges you based on them, isn't worth your time. You have better things to do than worry about it. :)
2007-10-25 22:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Brittae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are emoitionly insecure and ignorant to their own actions,alot of my friends talk before they think too,but in the long run it always comes back to bite'em in the ***.As long that you know in your heart that you have'nt done anything wrong piss on what others say,just do'nt stoop to their level,your better than that
2007-10-25 22:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by jasonbatla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why let something like this upset you. You have to answer to yourself, and if you don't mind what you did, then it is no one elses business. People always talk about someone else, then it takes all the conversation away from what they are doing. Tell him to clean off his door step, before he tries to sweep off yours.
2007-10-25 22:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget them. If there life is that pathetic thats their lose.
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2007-10-25 22:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by hannuhh♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it?
2007-10-25 22:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋