i'm not sure if my boyfriend of more than two yearsis cheating on me or not. i love him more than anything and dont think he would ever do anything to jeapordize our relationship...but some things recently have led me to believe he may have another girl on the side....like when his dad calls him when i am around he lies and say he is with matt(his best friend). he says its because his dad still isnt used to the idea of us being together and he doesnt want to make him mad but if he loves me should that matter? PLEASE HELP ME........i dont want to lose the love of my life!
2007-10-25 14:57:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold a mirror about a centimeter from his mouth as he sleeps. If you can see moisture on the mirror then he is cheating.
Seriously though...by the time a woman becomes suspicious of her guy cheating he's been doing it for months at least.
2007-10-25 15:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be truthfull with you self adn him. If you think he is cheeting on you ask him, if he avoids the question with stuff like "what makes you think that? or what are you talking about? or i love" then theres a chance he is also look at his eyes if he dosent make eye contact then hes lying to you. Just be brave and ask him.
Or what you could do is if you have his passwords to him email account get on them and check who hes been talking to. best way is under the "sent" folder.
You can also make him feel bad by telling him you would never do such a think like that to him and that he needs to be truthfull with no matter what, also add some tears to it.
2007-10-25 15:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always try confronting him about your suspicions, and you could do it in a non-accusatory manner. 9 times out of 10 when a person suspects that their significant other is cheating they are correct. But he deserves the benefit of the doubt. There may be another reason for his suspicious actions. Rather than drive yourself crazy I think it's best to talk to him about certain things that you are concerned with...without mentioning that you think he may be cheating.
2007-10-25 15:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by leelee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope he is not cheating on you. He probably is not. If you are that worried ask his dad if there is another girl there when you call. There is probably not. if he were to be cheating then don't worry though it would not be easy at first it would get easier and then God would bring you an even better love of your life.
2007-10-25 15:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really just depends on how good you know this guy..for instance......i've known my boyfriend for 10 years, so i pretty much know him up and down.....has he been acting distant lately? different than normal? i thought my boyfriend was cheating on me with my best friend until i found out he was trying to make her feel better b/c her family got a bomb threat and he didnt say anything cheating wise...he may be being honest about his dad, b/c i used to have to lie like that too when i wasnt allowed to date, but even if he is, he may just be trying not to get either one of you in trouble..i sorta need more details to be able to tell.
2007-10-25 15:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by halfbreed filipino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years and he ashamed to say he's with you. How old are you--adult or teenager. This sounds a little shakey. So do you think it's somebody other than his dad calling. Something's not right, but I don't think it's another woman. Start thinking better of yourself.
2007-10-25 15:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would that mean he's cheating on you?
i really don't know its so hard to tell. a lot of guys are like that though. for some reason just stupid. really all you can do is have a real talk about it. like do other people know you two are together?
2007-10-25 15:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by bahamababe!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go behind his back,relationships are bilt on trust.if your having trouble trusting him then confront him,don't accuse him just tell him why you have this concern.if he is guilty he wont admit it but now that you have confronted him you ask around.if there is another girl someone will have seen them,pluss now that the presure is on,if he is hiding somthing he is more likely to make a mistake.
2007-10-25 15:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by br549242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a real valid reason to believe that, but if your gut tells you that something is wrong, ask him about it. If you feel like he is not telling the truth, find someone else. You could be using your worrying time and spending it with someone else.
2007-10-25 15:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up one day when you know he's at home and supposedly alone. Then tell him to say your name. If he's not with anyone he'd say it. If he's with another girl, you'll here her in the back going off.
2007-10-25 15:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋