alright, so i met this guy nd i used to always go up and talk to him cuz he seemed really cool and at first he was like wat the heck y u always around me..(i mean u could tell he was annoied) and then he got used to me..and we become friends..he would always start talking to me,sittin by me in class..and we would like always nd i mean always like everyday stare at each other for the longest time untill one of us looked away..nd he used to talk to me everyday all the time..i honestly thought he was an awesome and real nice guy thats why started talkin to him in the first place but just the other day..he stoped sittin by me..he quit talking to me..he wont he say one word to me..he stoped lookin at me..AND when i go to look as him he freaks out and is like STop looking at me or is like dang and gets mad and turns away..i dont get it..he just randomly started acting like this..does anyone know why?
2007-10-25 14:50:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are in high school or middle school, it's normal for people to do something one day and change their "schedule" the next because they are getting to know each other and life without parents to guide them. He may be focusing on his studies or trying to turn a new leaf. He may also think that he is wasting your time if he thinks things aren't going anywhere. Just don't worry about it and give him time. Eventually, he has to face you again.
2007-10-25 14:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea because I don't know him, but something probably did happen to him. Either he heard something from someone he didn't like and isn't man enough to ask you about it, or... well, really I have no idea. I'd try talking to him, as in, ask him point blank. And, sorry to say this, but if he found you annoying at first and you imposed yourself into a friendship with him, then maybe he's just tired of you and didn't really like you that much to begin with, but either enjoyed making you think he did like you or didn't have anything better to do. (I'm sorry that sounds mean, I'm not trying to be, but it is a possibility.) Guys can be selfish jerks, just like girls. It may also be that he suddenly realized that he likes you as more than a friend, but doesn't know how to handle it, so he's ignoring you instead.
Ask him. Good luck.
2007-10-25 15:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Brittae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him like "why dont you ever sit by me anymore?" but if ur scared to say that ten just stop doin what u do which is sittin by him and starin at him or even talk to a other boy and see if he gets jelous!! kk i hope i helped xoxo -wow
2007-10-25 15:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by wow!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just had a bad day. If he keeps doing it, he might be having doubts about your relationship, in which case you should probably try to sit and talk to him about it. Even though guys seem like we don't want to talk on the outside (because it's too girly or whatever), if you get us in private, we'll open up. It takes some time though, so be patient!
2007-10-25 14:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by the_philosiphizer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok that just dosent seem right. If i a guy does that it means he is seeing someone else or more likely he is just embarrassed to look at you. maybe he likes you and is afraid that he will do something dumb around you. I know that happens to me. Well good luck with your relationship. I hope it works out and really i mean that.
2007-10-25 14:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun, but he just doesn't like you very much. I'm sorry if he hurt your feelings, but you should really just leave him alone. He's going to end up embarrassing you by saying that stuff in front of other people or yelling it at you or something. It's really better if you just back off now, before it comes to that.
2007-10-25 14:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he sounds pretty cool from your description. but maybe after a while he started to like you and got nervous and doesn't want to look like a fool to you.
most [younger] but sometimes old men do this. they get nervous and don't no what to do so they do the stupid thing, not talk to you and ignore you. which from my point of view is stupid
so maybe one day just go out to him and talk to him and be like are my cool? because lately you hadn't been talking to me and i was just wondering. because i really like our friendship.
i just wanted to no.
or if you don't want to take that appoacte. right him a note instead
good luck and i hope he comes to his senses
2007-10-25 14:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by nik-ole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something to do with his friends. its gotta be. this sorta happened to me but a completely different sit.
i have a bf and this isn't about him so don't think i like this other guy
but this guy always was hating on me and everything and he always hung around this other *****....but now i started to see some anger towards this ***** this year and he has been trying to avoid him more and more and he is talking to me more and more...i don't like him but he is a good guy and its nice to see him talking to me...so i think it has something to do with the drop of that ***** friend...so friends have a big influence on boy's lives.
2007-10-25 15:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are dumb..I say let the gusy come to you. He proabaly was not that interested when you first met him but then decided to give it a try then he realized he didnt like you. That the only thing I can guess besides men are dumb..haha
2007-10-25 14:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by candiceo1o7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like maybe he is confused and doesnt know what he wants right now, or maybe he was interested and changed his mind, or he might have found someone else to like, or maybe he was just playing around doing those things with you to make you think he liked you when he really didnt. my guess would be hes probably confused about what he wants right now. dont stress, play it cool.
2007-10-25 15:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by sandy15825 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋