I need some opinions plz!!! My hubby a/ I have full phys. custody of my stepson. His mom doesn't see him ever like in 6mths. We have been getting my sons bro every weekend for 4 weekends. His mom wants no part of him and I do for my stepsons sake a/ his bros. His dad is in prison for child molestation a/ looks up to my hubby as a father figure. I wrote a letter to my stepsons mom regarding everything a/ even offered his bro to stay here for a bit till she can get on her feet. Is this over stepping my boundaries? I only asked for the sake of the boys seeing each other. Plz give your opinion. His own bio grandparent wants him here a/ has even went so far as to invite me to my stepsons bros bday party instead of his own mom. Plz give some opinions...its appreciated.
2007-10-25 14:45:08 · 9 answers · asked by amyrocks6900 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Go for it sounds like you can provide the family foundation he needs. Good Luck
2007-10-25 14:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by K T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're a very caring mother - and if you can get your stepsons mother to agree to let you have his brother, it can only be a very good thing. I hope she agrees. The boy is obviously happier being in your home with his brother and a loving environment.
I wish you all the best.
2007-10-25 17:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No youre doing the right thing.The kids are always number one priority and if you and your hubby can give those children a better life then more power to you.You did a good thing.
2007-10-25 14:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a bad thing to offer to help someone out... you'd be helping the boys and the mom.
Whatever you offer to do, is your own business.
Take care and it's nice to see someone so generous and caring.
2007-10-25 14:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you have a very loveing heart and I don't think you have done anything wrong.
The world needs more people like you.
2007-10-25 14:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do all you can to rescue that kid.It is a noble thing, and he needs you!
2007-10-25 15:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the mom doesn't mind, it sounds like a good plan.
if i were you I'd have something from the courts tho..
remember the old saying, no good deed goes unpunished.
have everything in writing and up front and legal as legal can be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-25 14:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do the best u can
2007-10-25 14:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by etalya w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if something you feel is that important that you have to overstep, go ahead. if you trust your judgment, you can't go wrong because you can't please everybody.
2007-10-25 14:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋